i met this guy on here (justsayhi.com). i been talking to him on the phone for about a month. well, i decided he sounded good on the phone i must meet him. well i ask him to meet me at a resturant, i took some friends with me just in case, they sat at the table across from me. well this guy describe himself as being tall and sexy he saidd he worked out every day. the guy that walked up to my table had to be at least 350lbs, his eyes was so cross that his right just didn't focused at all and what made me really mad was that he still at the table tlaking about he just left the gym he hade to go home and take a shower and change clothes. just lying to me and then he asked me a question that really sent me over the top.... YOU WANT TO COME BACK TO MY PLACE. i said hell no and go the hell out of there.

damn liars.....i feel ya girl!!!!

I am so sorry to hear that! Glad you're okay.

if they do not have a pic up do not date or talk to them on the phone. because they have the option to lie to ya he is a jerk

the jackass had a picture when we first started to talk. he told me he took it off cause he found the woman of his dreams. and the guy on that picture was fine as hell

sorry he was not what you thought he would be, but at least you were in a public place and had friends with you

Could of still been working out...a lot of really big guys work out, that is what made them big in the first place. Meh.

no sweetheart this was big cause i ate the baby no big cause i work out he looked like a black fat bastard

God Babycake....I feel bad for ya girlfriend....Ive heard these horror stories...like a chick posted her pic and when a friend met her....he found out that it was a pic when she was 15....she actually looked alot older and wider...but he was so shocked...It isnt right to misrepresent yourself...I know all my pics are current and me....if they want something else...oh well....

i second that!!!

Well the real issue is him lying...not his weight. This is why web cams are nice to have before you actually meet up. Better luck next time...and ask more questions.

Im sorry that was too funny...

I met one on here after talking to him for about a month he was really sweet, really cute, looked exactly like his pics, we had so much in common and stuff and now he doesn't talk to me anymore. what do i do? should i call him and see if he is still alive or forget about him?

my mom always told me if a man stop calling then move on that a sign.

Thanks, I wouldn't know what to do because my mom passed away when I was 12 so my dad pretty much raised me and when I have advice on things its hard to understand what he means or that he cant comprehend what i say

Just send him one last mail and let him know what you are thinking...if he doesnt respond...let it go....

that is why jesus invented camera phones!

I guess some people are so uncomfortable with themselves , that they trick people. You are smart bringing friends & keeping it public. Never forget that !

I agree