Topic: Just Wondering....
kingballer02's photo
Wed 07/30/08 02:34 PM
Has anyone had the following problem happen to them...For example you have a mutual match with someone and then you send them an email just to say hello and how are you doing, but they never reply back!?!?...can be frustrating since is the whole thing about the mutual match is that both parties have some interest in getting to know the other person, but why not then at least respond back...show some courtesy or better yet don't click on yes on the mutual match button if you have no interest!! Even if u decide not to have any interest in talking back at least respond to the email but just don't ask in return how I'm doing, then I know at least that your not interested in talking back. I'm not saying everyone is like this, because trust me I've meet some cool people through this site, but I had to express my feeling on this situation. Any thoughts?

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Wed 07/30/08 02:38 PM
<3~Realistic Mutual Match~<3

I sit here pondering so lonesome and weary
These primal urges have left me so dreary
Such human frailty relying upon some hope
Diminished results has left us all to cope

Embellished hope on this fabled Mutual Match
Cybernetically formed in some soiled patch
Such lonesome whispers pierce the chilly air
Our anxious souls filled with love and care

Disclaimer lying beneath it's weathered skin
The gesture falls equivalent to a recycle bin
Some seek soul redemption with no paper trail
While others remain innocent & tearfully frail

This pool of emotions beneath a silvery moon
While deep nightfall cloaking upon us to soon
The air feels heavy and so redolent with tears
Failed relationships have given birth to fears

Such beautiful hearts are longing for a chance
For merciful healing so we may once again dance
Turbulent waves they rock these listless souls
While the time ticks forward taking it's toll

Fingers probing gently @ the surface with care
Such painful memories have left us all to aware
Gray clouds surrendering as we welcome the sun
Our resilience had held now are trials are done

Not by Mutual Match but by a friendship was born
We survived a past filled with such bitter scorn
I wish for these friendships to become our match
May fire be bright enough for the heart to catch

Lovingly written by CyPoet 4/1/08
May we find the one whom we seek

Lucky_Charms's photo
Wed 07/30/08 02:42 PM
Try the fourms, it might work out better for you.

ledi180's photo
Wed 07/30/08 02:44 PM
Yeah that happens alot. Some folks respond to email and some don't, even if they've MM'd with you. That's just the way some folks are (not that it's cool or right mind you). MM isn't the only way on here, as someone else said, the forums are great to. Get in and post a few and join in on others.

GOOD LUCK flowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 07/30/08 02:52 PM
drinker Whoot Whootdrinker

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Wed 07/30/08 03:06 PM

<3~Realistic Mutual Match~<3

I sit here pondering so lonesome and weary
These primal urges have left me so dreary
Such human frailty relying upon some hope
Diminished results has left us all to cope

Embellished hope on this fabled Mutual Match
Cybernetically formed in some soiled patch
Such lonesome whispers pierce the chilly air
Our anxious souls filled with love and care

Disclaimer lying beneath it's weathered skin
The gesture falls equivalent to a recycle bin
Some seek soul redemption with no paper trail
While others remain innocent & tearfully frail

This pool of emotions beneath a silvery moon
While deep nightfall cloaking upon us to soon
The air feels heavy and so redolent with tears
Failed relationships have given birth to fears

Such beautiful hearts are longing for a chance
For merciful healing so we may once again dance
Turbulent waves they rock these listless souls
While the time ticks forward taking it's toll

Fingers probing gently @ the surface with care
Such painful memories have left us all to aware
Gray clouds surrendering as we welcome the sun
Our resilience had held now are trials are done

Not by Mutual Match but by a friendship was born
We survived a past filled with such bitter scorn
I wish for these friendships to become our match
May fire be bright enough for the heart to catch

Lovingly written by CyPoet 4/1/08
May we find the one whom we seek
bigsmile flowerforyou ...one of my favorites..thank you Cy

brenlee1965's photo
Wed 07/30/08 03:52 PM
I haven't been on here very long; but it seems that only a few men are willing to respond. I agree with you.....common curtosy doesn't cost a thing and would be nice!

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Wed 07/30/08 03:57 PM
I think I saw it discussed somewhere here before when I used to just lurk and not respond, but basically that mutual match thing is not real indicative of well, anything! It's a shame because once in awhile you find someone you really think could be interesting and their picture just sits there....mad Frustrating!

Nova86's photo
Wed 07/30/08 04:03 PM
don't even sweat it man, some people on here are just rude and don't care enough to be polite or courteous. My advice is to just have fun on the forums and you can get to know people that way....i have also had that problem so don't think it was just you

Kleisto's photo
Wed 07/30/08 04:12 PM
It wasn't even mutual match for me, just in general people weren't responding at first (and some still don't)