100% FREE ONLINE DATING
sponsored links
Previous
| Topic: I could use some friendly advice and or just other peoples o | |
|---|---|
|
|
|
Great answers everyone thank you! And I know, I have to and will talk to her about it. But all I was looking for is signs. I want reassurance that I'm reading this situation right, and not taking things the wrong way.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I agree with crazy.....the physical contact should be your sign right there bud.....That is a TOTAL flirtatious response and trust me....she's interested.....just take things slow and BE FRIENDS FIRST!!!!!! You're going about it the right way...... Get to know her again and find out who she REALLY is first before you jump into anything..... Just be careful..... All I can tell you is that....I know she's interested too..... Best of luck I don't completely agree I have playful contact with guy friends who im not interested in like that I hope she is though 
Lol...you make it seem like I let them touch me all over Which isn't the case at all All I am saying is that just because she touches you doesn't mean she is interested like that... Im just saying... |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
lol i know, this is very complicated. We spend a lot of time together, and pretty much do family outings/every day activities. Its complicated. What really through me for a loop is the other day. We started watching this life time movie about two child hood best friends who eventually turned into a married couple (it was life time) anyway, they played this song about "we were friends, then become lovers" something to that affect..and she kept staring at me...its those suttle signs that keep me guessing lol Maybe I'm just over thinking way to much, and need to man up and have the talk and ruin the friendship.. |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
signs..-does she ever jam her tongue down your throat?? -do you ever grab her in the biscuits??? -does she ever want you to spank her cause shes been a bad girl???  typical response from the etrain!
Just ask her. You won't know for sure unless you talk to her about it. There are many female flirts out there that aren't necessarily interested in a relationship. Ask. Because if you just assume then that could lead to discomfort if you were rejected. JMO
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I know, we've played this game off and on for 6 years. We do have a 5 year if were not married lets get married clause lol Ok, i'm gonna stop venting on here...its just my friends are sick of hearing about it lol
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
signs..-does she ever jam her tongue down your throat?? -do you ever grab her in the biscuits??? -does she ever want you to spank her cause shes been a bad girl??? typical response from the etrain!
Just ask her. You won't know for sure unless you talk to her about it. There are many female flirts out there that aren't necessarily interested in a relationship. Ask. Because if you just assume then that could lead to discomfort if you were rejected. JMO
Exactly... Because everyone flirts... And I doubt she is gonna bring it up... Im not saying go from 0-60 in one day... But you need to discuss it definitely And if she is a real friend she will still be there, even if she doesn't feel the same |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I know, we've played this game off and on for 6 years. We do have a 5 year if were not married lets get married clause lol Ok, i'm gonna stop venting on here...its just my friends are sick of hearing about it lol |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
signs..-does she ever jam her tongue down your throat?? -do you ever grab her in the biscuits??? -does she ever want you to spank her cause shes been a bad girl??? typical response from the etrain!
Just ask her. You won't know for sure unless you talk to her about it. There are many female flirts out there that aren't necessarily interested in a relationship. Ask. Because if you just assume then that could lead to discomfort if you were rejected. JMO
Exactly... Because everyone flirts... And I doubt she is gonna bring it up... Im not saying go from 0-60 in one day... But you need to discuss it definitely And if she is a real friend she will still be there, even if she doesn't feel the same |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I appreciate the kind words my friend. I've always been in control of my situations and relationships as far knowing how and what to do. This one is different...it just feels more special then anything else in the world. If anyone interested in this topic met this angel, you'd understand why I'm taking this guarded and confused approach. Didn't some smart and great philosopher once state " Meeting your soul mate is the scariest **** in the world" NO? Well they should have, because its true..
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
And do I not have my own experiences to share?
I can guarentee that she already knows if she would be more than just friends with him... And plus...I didn't even say do it....do it now! So I don't know why you are launching a little mini attack Just because it is coming from you and you have been there doesn't mean it is the best advice Bottom line he is gonna do what he wants...regardless of what even U say... I have had someone wait to long...and you know what happens...people move on And he seems ready to make that leap to me...based on what he is asking...he obviously wants more |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
does she get jealous if you talk about other women?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Edited by
Amathyst2
on
Tue 07/29/08 10:43 PM
|
|
signs..-does she ever jam her tongue down your throat?? -do you ever grab her in the biscuits??? -does she ever want you to spank her cause shes been a bad girl??? typical response from the etrain!
Just ask her. You won't know for sure unless you talk to her about it. There are many female flirts out there that aren't necessarily interested in a relationship. Ask. Because if you just assume then that could lead to discomfort if you were rejected. JMO
Exactly... Because everyone flirts... And I doubt she is gonna bring it up... Im not saying go from 0-60 in one day... But you need to discuss it definitely And if she is a real friend she will still be there, even if she doesn't feel the same I'm not saying he should jump the gun. He knows to talk about it when the time is right. I agree to take it slow, but not too slow. Do not make your own assumptions without first talking to her. JMO |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
And do I not have my own experiences to share? I can guarentee that she already knows if she would be more than just friends with him... And plus...I didn't even say do it....do it now! So I don't know why you are launching a little mini attack Just because it is coming from you and you have been there doesn't mean it is the best advice Bottom line he is gonna do what he wants...regardless of what even U say... I have had someone wait to long...and you know what happens...people move on And he seems ready to make that leap to me...based on what he is asking...he obviously wants more 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Yes, she does inquire who texts me and what not. And I was sorta talking to this girl who ****ed me over, and her advice was to never talk to the girl again. And just this weekend she insisted I come stay with her down in Pittsburgh over going out with another good girl friend of mine. Basically, yea she questions who I talk to.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
I would simply ask is there a chance our friendship could turn into something more?
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Yes, she does inquire who texts me and what not. And I was sorta talking to this girl who ****ed me over, and her advice was to never talk to the girl again. And just this weekend she insisted I come stay with her down in Pittsburgh over going out with another good girl friend of mine. Basically, yea she questions who I talk to. 
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
And do I not have my own experiences to share? I can guarentee that she already knows if she would be more than just friends with him... And plus...I didn't even say do it....do it now! So I don't know why you are launching a little mini attack Just because it is coming from you and you have been there doesn't mean it is the best advice Bottom line he is gonna do what he wants...regardless of what even U say... I have had someone wait to long...and you know what happens...people move on And he seems ready to make that leap to me...based on what he is asking...he obviously wants more
Then I apologize for the accusation I have seen too many people not do anything about their feelings...and then later say they have regrets about how they handled the situation In my opinion...it is better to know Because if it isn't there...it isn't there...better to know now imo |
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Ok I got it. I know how you can find out. Just let her catch you screwing another girl. Then you will know for sure where you stand in your freindship! Just remember to wear body armour.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
Anyone else interested in hearing one other little detail about my situation, its involves sexual talk. She's always telling me how good she is, at umm...pleasing a man. She always brings that up when shes drunk...probably nothing big, but still...food for thought lol. I know i know, just talk to her.
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
|
And do I not have my own experiences to share? I can guarentee that she already knows if she would be more than just friends with him... And plus...I didn't even say do it....do it now! So I don't know why you are launching a little mini attack Just because it is coming from you and you have been there doesn't mean it is the best advice Bottom line he is gonna do what he wants...regardless of what even U say... I have had someone wait to long...and you know what happens...people move on And he seems ready to make that leap to me...based on what he is asking...he obviously wants more
Then I apologize for the accusation I have seen too many people not do anything about their feelings...and then later say they have regrets about how they handled the situation In my opinion...it is better to know Because if it isn't there...it isn't there...better to know now imo |
|
|
|
|
