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debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:52 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 07/28/08 08:54 AM
yes, I think it is only fair to be up-front...and ...easier on you if they run early

cats219 Joined Wed 08/01/07 Posts: 2663	Mon 07/28/08 08:54 AM
i think i would wait to see if its going to work out first.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Mon 07/28/08 08:55 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. ooooh well you could always enjoy my weiner anyways

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:55 AM
yes, I think it is only fair to be up-front...and ...easier on you if they run early yes thats true. at least if they cant take it, they will disappear before you got to know him, so no one gets hurt.

BobbyJ Joined Fri 02/22/08 Posts: 1368	Mon 07/28/08 08:55 AM
I like to be upfront. I put mine are in my profile. What one sees is what one gets with me!

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:56 AM
i think i would wait to see if its going to work out first. i only tell them straight away if im interesting in them, if im not interested i wont tell him

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Mon 07/28/08 08:56 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. ooooh well you could always enjoy my weiner anyways oh my

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:56 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. ooooh well you could always enjoy my weiner anyways

ledi180 Joined Sun 04/15/07 Posts: 5910	Mon 07/28/08 08:56 AM
I'd be honest, maybe not on the first date, but soon there after if things went well and it seemed like we might become an item

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:57 AM
I like to be upfront. I put mine are in my profile. What one sees is what one gets with me! fair enough, me personally i tell him straight away if im interested and he is.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Mon 07/28/08 08:57 AM
I wouldnt tell him right away..might scare him off he might think you want to rush things with him. I have PCOS so its gonna be hard for me to have kids to but I dont tell him right away only if things get serious then I let them know it will be harder but its still possible to have kids.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 07/28/08 08:57 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. wow, some first date conversation

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:58 AM
I'd be honest, maybe not on the first date, but soon there after if things went well and it seemed like we might become an item i think thats fair enough

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:59 AM
health problems, are you upfront and tell him/her straight away or wait a while?? if im interested i will tell him straight away it could be harder for me to get pregnant due to endometriosis blah blah. wow, some first date conversation well fran im talking online, not on a first date, if a guy is desperate to have kids, then its only fair i tell him, because i might not be able to give him what he wants. plus if it was vice vesa id like to know ASAP to.

YourLove1 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 5275	Mon 07/28/08 08:59 AM
i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another ..

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Mon 07/28/08 08:59 AM
If you have a contagious disease, by all means be upfront about it via telephone... but to think sharing your medical history with a stranger right away is good, yikes..... JMO

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 08:59 AM
I wouldnt tell him right away..might scare him off he might think you want to rush things with him. I have PCOS so its gonna be hard for me to have kids to but I dont tell him right away only if things get serious then I let them know it will be harder but its still possible to have kids. thats exactly what i say.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 09:00 AM
If you have a contagious disease, by all means be upfront about it via telephone... but to think sharing your medical history with a stranger right away is good, yikes..... JMO but when it comes down to having kids, i think its important he knows.

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Mon 07/28/08 09:01 AM
i believe when you're dating someone or wanna date someone , having health problems should be something to share little by little as the two get to know one another ..