Topic: Hypothetically speaking...
crazysillygirl's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:43 PM
he obviously just wanted a booty call.....

he deserves nothing but the cold shoulder!!!!!

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:43 PM
"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:43 PM


is it wrong to ask a girl for a kiss nowadays?


Well...there are deifnitely mixed opinions about that
My sister thinks it shows he's a gentleman, whereas I feel it is a turn off because it ruins spontaneity


that depends on how romantic the guy actually is. I find some quite romantic ways in my question, dont think i have never kissed on the first date... actally

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:44 PM

My guess would be yes. However what gave him the right to assume that he could kiss the girl, when they were just meeting?


And to reply to this, hell, I kiss my parents, siblings and even some of my friends... Some people place different values on different actions. I know people that use sex as an icebreaker, and who will not even touch until they marry. I treat each the same, however I also let them know my values going in... could have just been miscommunication causing hurt feelings... with all due respect to our poster, how do we know he did not misread her? To assume a man is a jerk because his behavior stuns you is wrong...
It is a double standard... if a guy does something you dont like he is a jerk, if he doesnt respond when you do he is a jerk... no wonder dating sites are making $40,000,000,000 a year...

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:45 PM

"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?



I married a woman who slept with me 1 1/2 hours into our first date... again it is a value system, and every one has a different set of them...

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:45 PM
Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...

kutiepie31's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:46 PM

is it wrong to ask a girl for a kiss nowadays?



NO KISS ME U FOOL lmao smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:46 PM

Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


It actually makes sense ohwell

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:47 PM

Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:47 PM


My guess would be yes. However what gave him the right to assume that he could kiss the girl, when they were just meeting?


And to reply to this, hell, I kiss my parents, siblings and even some of my friends... Some people place different values on different actions. I know people that use sex as an icebreaker, and who will not even touch until they marry. I treat each the same, however I also let them know my values going in... could have just been miscommunication causing hurt feelings... with all due respect to our poster, how do we know he did not misread her? To assume a man is a jerk because his behavior stuns you is wrong...
It is a double standard... if a guy does something you dont like he is a jerk, if he doesnt respond when you do he is a jerk... no wonder dating sites are making $40,000,000,000 a year...


Okay you win, but just for the record I am not judging anyone.........I know just as many women as men that would be the one trying to take from the other.

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:48 PM


Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


It actually makes sense ohwell


Ur??? huh

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:48 PM


"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?



I married a woman who slept with me 1 1/2 hours into our first date... again it is a value system, and every one has a different set of them...


Again you win. I guess I am just a little old fashion in my thinking.

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:48 PM


is it wrong to ask a girl for a kiss nowadays?



NO KISS ME U FOOL lmao smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched smooched


on our second date laugh blushing

Nursekimmie09's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:49 PM


Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


I think we have talked before...
If he knows your values, and then decided to violate them, then in fact he is a jerk and should be curbed very quickly... (p.s. are you on myspace in any groups? I swear we have talked before... and I just started posting here)


Yeah I have a myspace...
But as far as groups go I just belong to some nursing ones...and school ones I think

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:49 PM

"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?




sexual activity does not change my opinion of the person at heart, it depends on how they treat me, not what I can get from them. I never 'expect' anything, however if the physical attraction is there, I do not turn it down...

KalamazooGuy87's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:49 PM



Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


It actually makes sense ohwell


Ur??? huh


mosts scum bags love to take advantage of virgins, makes sence to me.

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:49 PM



Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


It actually makes sense ohwell


Ur??? huh


I meant if he knew you were a virgin

And tried to kiss you and hope for more

Well then you have your answer

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:50 PM




Yeah I would think he just wanted a booty call too...
However, he knows im a virgin...
That's why it's strange...


It actually makes sense ohwell


Ur??? huh


mosts scum bags love to take advantage of virgins, makes sence to me.


Another way of putting it too

iamherefornow's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:51 PM


"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?




sexual activity does not change my opinion of the person at heart, it depends on how they treat me, not what I can get from them. I never 'expect' anything, however if the physical attraction is there, I do not turn it down...


laugh Only human

Madtanker03's photo
Sat 07/26/08 10:52 PM



"... I more than kiss on the first date, however I do not EXPECT to..."

But then what is your opinion of the female after the date?



I married a woman who slept with me 1 1/2 hours into our first date... again it is a value system, and every one has a different set of them...


Again you win. I guess I am just a little old fashion in my thinking.



I apologize if you thought I was fighting... I was not trying to 'win'... merely to contribute in my way to the dialectic. You have your values, and I adamently defend your right to have them. If you do not feel they are old fashioned, and they suit you, do not change them for anyone!! Values are important and one should only adjust who they are for themselves, including our poster here! Again if I seemed like I was competing I apologize...