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Topic: Quantity or quality
Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:04 PM
Some people on dating sites send out e-mails like they are spam. They subscribe to the theory that if you throw enough sh!t against the wall some of it is bound to stick. Others will focus on a couple of likely candidates and try to work their magic. Which is more likely to be successful in finding a date? How about in finding a relationship? I think there might be a different answer for each of these questions.

oldsage Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 18043	Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
I go for QUALITY every time. Quality will last much longer than quantity.

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friends

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Thu 07/24/08 02:05 PM
I just let them come to me.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:06 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friends Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here...

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:07 PM
I just let them come to me. Not all of us are superstuds bro

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 07/24/08 02:08 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friends Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here... yeah, I found my guy, he broke my heart, and now....just looking for friends

MisKim323 Joined Sat 06/28/08 Posts: 14563	Thu 07/24/08 02:10 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friends Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here... and actually she probably started out as a friend which meant no pressure and things just happened?

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Thu 07/24/08 02:10 PM
I just let them come to me. Not all of us are superstuds bro

Mrtap Joined Thu 03/27/08 Posts: 1737	Thu 07/24/08 02:11 PM Edited by Mrtap on Thu 07/24/08 02:12 PM
As miskim said relax and find friend first

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:11 PM
Just realxing and trying to find friends Funny you should say that because that was my mindset when I first joined up and I wound up finding the woman I love out here... and actually she probably started out as a friend which meant no pressure and things just happened? No, we had feelings for each other from the get, but she was sooooo far away I resisted for awhile...

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 07/24/08 02:12 PM
Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him.... I know I'm shy. He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee). Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while.... Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:16 PM
Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him.... I know I'm shy. He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee). Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while.... Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry. You are beautiful, sweet, and brilliant. I GUARANTEE if you perservere you will find a good man my friend.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 07/24/08 02:20 PM
Thanks, Mitch.

Unknow Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 41170	Thu 07/24/08 02:22 PM
You're welcome

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Thu 07/24/08 02:22 PM
Quality, definetly. If someone is just sending out tones of emails that are pretty much genaric "you have great eyes" or "hey wana chat" sorts of emails, I can tell, and it gets anoying and I deleate them mos of the time. (PS. Sorry I'm not the best speller)

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Thu 07/24/08 03:08 PM
Oh I got a mail from a guy today and I said I was regretful it did not end with, "What are you doing Friday night?" So I asked him.... I know I'm shy. He is a doll, tall, three years younger, lives pretty close (40 min drive)... from Massachusetts originally (I'm a sucker for a fellow yankee). Dammit I got to have a good date once in a while.... Anyhow, wish me luck. I joined this site to date and see what I found. So far, it's been sad and sorry. But I am perservering as I know there ARE good guys. I'm just waiting to meet them. Actually, that is not fair. I have met a few, a rare few, but there was just not any chemistry. Lol... gotta love a direct woman! Have a feeling you'll do fine. Good luck with the date! TK

tngxl65 Joined Sat 01/12/08 Posts: 6189	Thu 07/24/08 03:09 PM
Are there any other choices?

my3girlsrcbk Joined Tue 07/22/08 Posts: 302	Thu 07/24/08 03:13 PM
Quality, find friends first, then date.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Thu 07/24/08 03:14 PM
wtg Lilith - have fun!!!