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why are people so harsh? And why so many flip answers? Because (whether he realizes it or not) he is playing with peoples emotions. He is not being completely honest. He is setting up another woman AND himself for another failed relationship. |
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see i met her on this website waited a year and got married she had us move out here to colorado and then left me all my family is in florida and they wont even help me though this they say i got myself into this and that i need to fix it. one thing is before i met her i was engaged to a lovely girl and i left that girl for what i thought would of been my soul mate now i just wish i could get ahold of my ex and see how she doing but i cant Dude...not trying to be an A$$ but if you were engaged already why were you on here?  sounds to me like karma.....
Don't think you're being an ass here. I think this man's karma has resulted in this mess. What goes around comes around!! |
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Wow, just wow
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david listen to words of wisdom from a queen,there r other fish in the sea and theres nothing wrong with u its called a brokenheart dumb ass doc should of seen that,ps there r so many other fish in the sea,one more word of advice times a b ch to get thru but time does heel,been there done that
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see i met her on this website waited a year and got married she had us move out here to colorado and then left me all my family is in florida and they wont even help me though this they say i got myself into this and that i need to fix it. one thing is before i met her i was engaged to a lovely girl and i left that girl for what i thought would of been my soul mate now i just wish i could get ahold of my ex and see how she doing but i cant Dude...not trying to be an A$$ but if you were engaged already why were you on here? sounds to me like karma.....
Don't think you're being an ass here. I think this man's karma has resulted in this mess. What goes around comes around!! He was cheated on and came here for "advice". So he got a double karma expresso late whammy. Oh and his wife is now with a UFC wrestler and he also mentioned he is a firefighter. What a way to pick up women...it's funny though how guys are sensing something isn't quite right. i was on here because the girl i was engaged to cheated on me and i came on to meet some one to help me i wasnt on here looking for anyone but then i met some one and i left her |
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hey i am so depressed my wife is divorcing me after 8 monthes to go be with a ufc fighter i dont know what to do Stay down! <=- throws towel in on his behalf. |
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Life goes on love and she will see what she has lost after she is gone
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i was on here because the girl i was engaged to cheated on me and i came on to meet some one to help me i wasnt on here looking for anyone but then i met some one and i left her You came here for the same reason we all did to find someone else. Rule one in finding someone: BE HONEST Whether you realize it or not you are doing the same thing you did before. When you use sympathy to have someone attach to you emotionally you will get more pain. Learn from your mistakes. Coming on here when you have just been screwed over is a mistake. Believe it or not if others are mean to you forcing your departure would likely be the best thing. Get your head together before finding someone. Do not use sympathy as a tool to get someone else. (Franshade you got this one wrong.) not sure what I got wrong? Read the thread. This is how he works. He lost his last girlfriend as she cheated on him. So he came to a singles site for "advice"? Google "relationship advice", I don't think you'll get any hits for singles websites. He came to get his revenge on the woman who cheated. He wanted to get layed. He found a great opening line which was to use sympathy. It worked. He found another who felt sorry for him and now he is doing it again. He wants sympathy not advice. What advice can you give him other than do not get involved on the rebound. Stay honest. Stop using sympathy to attract women to you as you will have the same thing happen. Your big warm heart was taken in by him Franshade. That is how he finds his relationships. He either stops that now or it will get him more pain. I view him as a player. He is dishonest and using. Oh Destiny Dream thanks, but I was not taken by him as I always will believe it takes 2 people to allow things to happen, but I see your point and it's well taken. People who use other people rarely enjoy life, it's a vicious circle, but everyone is responsible for their actions. 
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He was cheated on and came here for "advice". So he got a double karma expresso late whammy.
Oh and his wife is now with a UFC wrestler and he also mentioned he is a firefighter. What a way to pick up women...it's funny though how guys are sensing something isn't quite right. perhaps the guys are feeling a twinge of jealousy? Just saying. |
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i was on here because the girl i was engaged to cheated on me and i came on to meet some one to help me i wasnt on here looking for anyone but then i met some one and i left her I think I'm going to wait a month before responding with much more than emoticons. 
http://mingle2.com/forum/show_posts_by_user/37133 Take some time and reread your posts in the mean time, okay? |
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Be thankful it happened so soon; she's a Hoe and you should be thankful she's gone.....
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Sun 07/27/08 03:56 AM
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you cannot control what anyone else feels or does.
hang with your friends and here and make the divorce quick and clean. find another beautiful woman - beautiful on the inside. they are everywhere but most certainly even here. give to them the trust you would have yourself and let yourself love them without restraint and you will find someone new who is worthy of your admiration. i am sorry to hear of your misfortune. |
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karma does have a way of biting one in the behind. Cheaters(of any kind)never win~ You can't do anything about your ex choosing to cheat and leave. You can how ever change your own behavior in the future, maybe you will give some thought to your own behavior with others now that you know how it feels to be on the receiving end. A hard lesson to learn but if it makes you aware then worth it. Look to the future not the past, time will heal your wounds and your heart will eventually mend. Learn from this. Not everyone cheats, that's just an excuse that people use to justify thier own behavior, everyone is doing it. Well everyone isn't doing it and even if they were that doesn't make it right. Try doing what IS right as opposed to what just feels good.
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see i met her on this website waited a year and got married she had us move out here to colorado and then left me all my family is in florida and they wont even help me though this they say i got myself into this and that i need to fix it. one thing is before i met her i was engaged to a lovely girl and i left that girl for what i thought would of been my soul mate now i just wish i could get ahold of my ex and see how she doing but i cant i've been there myself, and i know you don't want to hear this, because i didn't either..... but i was talking about how my ex had us homeless and all and my sister (who's 46 and has been there, done that and got the t-shirt, so to speak)...pops up asked me who's fault it was that i got in that position.....i was honest and told her i thought it was my ex's.......that's where i learned this......(using a direct quote from my sister) "it's your fault....you let this happen" not tryin to be a *****, but i'm just saying like some of the others....really look at the marriage....and see what went wrong, not just her side....but yours too. |
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