That some guys automatically assume that they should be trusted. What in Gods name is wrong with men that think that we should just trust them without question or without a second thought. Im sorry my bad for looking out for myself.
I dont go to peoples houses first meeting...i dont let them pick me up...for two reasons
1. Because i dont know what they are ultimately looking for people lie...not just men women too im bi so i date both!
2. Because if you feel unsafe or just arent clicking you can leave if you have your own car. Its just easier and safer.

Trust should be earned not given

I don't know.

I completely agree with that. I dont just assume that anyone im dating will automatically trust me either...just because im a woman doesnt mean i might not have alterior motives lmao

I agree. Better to be safe , than the top story on the six o'clock news

Just keep yourself safe Sweety...if they can't understand then that is their problem and not worth your time

you kind of have to trust the person a little or they'll think you dont trust them at all and thats not good, then they'll feel the have to spend the whole time earning it and that will scare them off.

What pompas a$$ would assume that they were trust worthy in this world now days?????

trust is something thats built over time and it doesnt take much for me to trust someone to be honest with you. what im saying is you talk to someone on here for fifteen minutes and because they are local just all of a sudden they want you to come on over to their house and be cool with that...i dont think so maybe if i had talked to the person on the phone or on here for a while sure but not the first day first time talking to them

I never give my address for the first date. I agree to meet in a public place. that way if they don't like or I don't like them we have our own vehicle and a way out. if things go well, I will let them pick me up the 2nd time

That sounds smart to me.

I always meet somewhere. They don't find out where I live until I feel that they are someone that I can trust.

I, also, only give out my cell number until I am in a relationship.

trust no one....

Why would not trusting somebody until they have earned it scare them off? They should respect that if they are interested in you.

Trust takes time.