Topic: Does Size Really Matter? | |
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I will whip them into shape!!!!
Mmmmmmmmmmm salad!!! |
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"we never go anywhere"".....end result=60lbs
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yeah i agree with all of you guys, but it's still pretty hard haha =) but thanks for all of the advice:P im going to try to stay strong and not take him back hehe |
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yeah i agree with all of you guys, but it's still pretty hard haha =) but thanks for all of the advice:P im going to try to stay strong and not take him back hehe Why is it hard? He hurt you once and if you gain weight again, he'll hurt you again. He is obviously more into the woman's looks and not into the personality. Do you really want to be with someone like that? The older a person gets, the harder it is to keep the weight down. It is obvious that he is not going to be there in the long run. |
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You gonna eat that?
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Hey i was just wondering if size really mattered? I mean yeah it's important, and yes you have to be attracted to the person you are with, but let's say you fall in love with somone and over the years they gain weight is it really okay to leave them because of that? I would think if one falls in love, it wouldn't matter. Then again, if it's just women were talking about, there are things like them having kids that can change ones body ect. Gaining weight is one thing, but to let yourself go is another. I know there are some situation that are different from others, but i would think if one cares about themselves and there life. Then they will make that change. For somone to leave because of just a little weight. Needs to take a good loook at themselves. |
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He seems to me to be shallow and unforgiving. He was ready and willing to toss you aside because of your weight and now that you lost it... he wants you back. He doesn't seem to even want the "real you", just what he can show off. And trust me honey... you will make some other guy a lucky man and your ex can just eat his heart out watching you walk away
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you know the weight gain issue for me is this, if you like someone because they arent fat ,then they do gain weight to me that alone is reason for the break up. just like if you like someone because they dont smoke then all of a sudden they pick up the habit.people leave one another over, money,bad sex,etc. so if your going to leave because of these things then why not over a weight issue.remember to each is own I found out that a guy that I was dating divorced his wife because she had gained weight. He liked me alot. I dropped him so fast his head was spinning. I did not want to be with such a shallow man. No way. |
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