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why people change their opinions of you when they find out that your not single........they are ready to hook up with you and they think your great but the minute you say "sorry, i'm in a relationship" all of a sudden your just another slut.........
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Well, it does kinda dampen the fire a little...
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Sounds to me like you're leading people on. By "hooking" up with you, YOU are obviously saying things to lead them on maybe because you like and need attention just like this thread YOU are posting. Maybe YOU should be upfront in the beggining.....
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why people change their opinions of you when they find out that your not single........they are ready to hook up with you and they think your great but the minute you say "sorry, i'm in a relationship" all of a sudden your just another slut......... I think you are just looking for friends to "hook" up with. You should state this somewhere on your profile!! |
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Sounds to me like you're leading people on. By "hooking" up with you, YOU are obviously saying things to lead them on maybe because you like and need attention just like this thread YOU are posting. Maybe YOU should be upfront in the beggining..... actually i was very upfront about it. this guy asked me why i looked at his profile and didn't msgs him and i told him it was just because i was nosey and wanted to see what he did for a living. i also told him that i just got engaged to a paratrooper that i actually met on this site. his response was that i was just another slut it went on to say other not so great things |
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i really don't know how much more upfront i can be than telling them that i'm in a relationship in the very first msg i send them. i only get on this site to read the forums anyways
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Well if thats true then that dude has some serious issues but I wouldnt generalize people just by one idiot. Its ok to look as long as you're honest
Sounds to me like you're leading people on. By "hooking" up with you, YOU are obviously saying things to lead them on maybe because you like and need attention just like this thread YOU are posting. Maybe YOU should be upfront in the beggining..... actually i was very upfront about it. this guy asked me why i looked at his profile and didn't msgs him and i told him it was just because i was nosey and wanted to see what he did for a living. i also told him that i just got engaged to a paratrooper that i actually met on this site. his response was that i was just another slut it went on to say other not so great things |
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yeah i know right. his response was definately off the wall and kinda offended me a bit
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