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my wife and will have our fisrt anniversery in two days she in the navy shell be home in aug, bu what im gettin at is we have some hard communication issues and trust issues
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Like being on a dating site
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Well Happy Anniversary to you guys
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Like being on a dating site what u gettin at this is the only place to really gettin any logical talk going on i learn some and dont |
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Well Happy Anniversary to you guys
thank you 
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Like being on a dating site well said |
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Edited by
stardust50
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Sat 07/19/08 03:29 PM
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Like being on a dating site  My thoughts too........
Issues with trust ummmm trusting you or her? communication does she know your on this dating site? |
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my wife and will have our fisrt anniversery in two days she in the navy shell be home in aug, bu what im gettin at is we have some hard communication issues and trust issues Did the issues happen when she went to the navy, or soon after the marriage? Could mean something, like the issues are just hard because you are missing each other due to distance if they started when she went away. If soon after the marriage, maybe its something that you need to seek a marriage counselor for, could be deeper issues. |
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if taking care of the c-men is her job....get over it!!!
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if taking care of the c-men is her job....get over it!!! OOPS!!! |
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my wife and will have our fisrt anniversery in two days she in the navy shell be home in aug, bu what im gettin at is we have some hard communication issues and trust issues Look you wife is around manly men, all day. the temptation is overwhelming. She does not have you there for Her to cry on when things are tough, or when she is feeling lonely. The point im tring to make is, The more problems you create while she, the more likely shes going to bang one of those guys for comfort. So if you cant fix your mind to just supporting her, then let her go. You have the what you dont know, wont hurt you mentality. |
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Edited by
HeSearches
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Sun 07/20/08 09:30 AM
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Military life can be really hard on young marrieds. You don't get to develop your marriage relationship the same way most people do and that can lead to problems down the road.
Time and distance can erode trust in each other. She's young and healthy and so are you. You both have needs and desires that aren't getting filled. It's natural to think the other one might act on those needs and desires while they are away so long. You need to do whatever you can to build and maintain trust. Telling her what you did with almost every hour of your day is one way of doing that. Writing her a lot of email is another way. Every time you think of something that involves her you should tell her about it. Talking as much as you can on the phone is important because she can hear how much you miss her in your voice. Sending her little thoughtful cards and gifts is another way to touch her. It takes a special person to be married to someone in the military who will be gone for long periods of time. It takes loads of trust and committment and a lot of people aren't up to it. I wish you well in keeping your marriage alive. |
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Military life can be really hard on young marrieds. You don't get to develop your marriage relationship the same way most people do and that can lead to problems down the road. Time and distance can erode trust in each other. She's young and healthy and so are you. You both have needs and desires that aren't getting filled. It's natural to think the other one might act on those needs and desires while they are away so long. You need to do whatever you can to build and maintain trust. Telling her what you did with almost every hour of your day is one way of doing that. Writing her a lot of email is another way. Every time you think of something that involves her you should tell her about it. Talking as much as you can on the phone is important because she can hear how much you miss her in your voice. Sending her little thoughtful cards and gifts is another way to touch her. It takes a special person to be married to someone in the military who will be gone for long periods of time. It takes loads of trust and committment and a lot of people aren't up to it. I wish you well in keeping your marriage alive. *speechless for a moment* That is, sincerely, one of the loveliest, most gracious pieces of advice I have ever read on this site, HeSearches. Wow! Thank you for taking the time to send that to the OP - whether he recognizes the depth and magnitude of your sage advice or not, it affected me profoundly. Well done. |
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its hard not to have trust issues when someone is gone for awhile. because we know how "some" other people are.but if they really love each other then temptation shouldnt be a temptation.
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Military life can be really hard on young marrieds. You don't get to develop your marriage relationship the same way most people do and that can lead to problems down the road. Time and distance can erode trust in each other. She's young and healthy and so are you. You both have needs and desires that aren't getting filled. It's natural to think the other one might act on those needs and desires while they are away so long. You need to do whatever you can to build and maintain trust. Telling her what you did with almost every hour of your day is one way of doing that. Writing her a lot of email is another way. Every time you think of something that involves her you should tell her about it. Talking as much as you can on the phone is important because she can hear how much you miss her in your voice. Sending her little thoughtful cards and gifts is another way to touch her. It takes a special person to be married to someone in the military who will be gone for long periods of time. It takes loads of trust and committment and a lot of people aren't up to it. I wish you well in keeping your marriage alive. very well said
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Military life can be really hard on young marrieds. You don't get to develop your marriage relationship the same way most people do and that can lead to problems down the road. Time and distance can erode trust in each other. She's young and healthy and so are you. You both have needs and desires that aren't getting filled. It's natural to think the other one might act on those needs and desires while they are away so long. You need to do whatever you can to build and maintain trust. Telling her what you did with almost every hour of your day is one way of doing that. Writing her a lot of email is another way. Every time you think of something that involves her you should tell her about it. Talking as much as you can on the phone is important because she can hear how much you miss her in your voice. Sending her little thoughtful cards and gifts is another way to touch her. It takes a special person to be married to someone in the military who will be gone for long periods of time. It takes loads of trust and committment and a lot of people aren't up to it. I wish you well in keeping your marriage alive. *speechless for a moment* That is, sincerely, one of the loveliest, most gracious pieces of advice I have ever read on this site, HeSearches. Wow! Thank you for taking the time to send that to the OP - whether he recognizes the depth and magnitude of your sage advice or not, it affected me profoundly. Well done. damn, I gotta start writing more stuff like this for the womenz to see... jk mate, haha |
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