i think my boyfriend might be cheating on me or cheating on someone with me..this is based on things ive seen on the internet about him and the fact that i caught him out on something and he's gone and changed all his profiles online so i can't find or see anything...

so i was thinking how can i find the proof and not just except his work...

i had thought maybe sending him some kind of sms message on this old number i havent used in years so he wouldnt know the number and say something like i miss you or i want you back and if he is up to something and thinks he knows who it is he proberbly wont go asking who is this incase it upsets the person...dont know...

yes i must sound crazy and just dump the guy but i'd also like to be able to catch him out because he just seems so sly lately

does he use a community computer in your home or just his?

Find some self esteem and dump him!
If you don't trust him then it's OVER!
Doesn't matter if you're right or wrong (It's over)!

The best advice I can give you being that I was in this same situation, is be honest and ask him.

I was the one he was cheating with and when I found out I was devastated, we were dating for 3 months, saw each other or talked almost every day. Then I found out that his so called ex was hanging around, turned out not an ex.

Honesty is always the best policy. Good luck dear.

You have to do what is right for you. If you suspect him. Drop him. Simple. All the drama of catching him in the act (if it is even true that he is cheating) is all just added drama which won't really do anything for you. Like the guy a couple posts above me said, if you don't trust him, it will only be a matter of time until it is over anyway. Just go find a guy who you do feel comfortable with instead!

I agree. That makes you play as many games as he is apparently playing. Let it go.

Never accept anyone's word alone. Words either support actions or they don't. He either cherishes you or he doesn't. Generally, we already know and waste hours, months or years denying the obvious, and then act surprised when what we already knew transpires. Skip past all that used cow food, and go with your heart.

If he is hiding things from you then you already have your answer. I think we all waste time in situations like these, myself included.

better find it out quick..cheating can be deadly...for you

Give him one chance to be honest and let him know it...then...

hack into his computer...or set him up & catch him

If you say he is being sly then I doubt you'll get an honest answer.

if the signs are there don't let it get to the point that it ruins u. u are the important one and only u know what's best for u. unless you like feeling like a dirty little secret and if you think he's cheating on someone with u that's what u are...jmo

Bottom line .. he's keeping stuff from you. End of story sweets.

((((((((((((((( NEXT ))))))))))))))))

Amen

hes on the internet and he changed his profiles since you seen them? humm well i wonder if he seen yours how he would feel? remember relationships are a two way thing... perhaps he forgot to change his profiles? maybe... or maybe hes cheating if you dont have trust for him any longer its time to move on . nothing is worth feeling miserable..

communication is the best key here... talk to him.. find out where he is at with you for he may have different ideas than you have.. perhaps he is just dating you and you have claimed him as your boyfriend.. maybe he isnt as serious about the relationship as you are? or maybe he doesnt realize how serious you are about the relationship?

why go thru all this drama? sit him down and ask him outright. Follow your gutt and your instincts.

i agree with this.... but perhaps if they understand each other better too that may work... lack of communication obviously and im going off this is a fairly new relationship due to her looking for a date on here and signed up in february also age 22..

He will most likely lie anyway. I say just dump his ass and move on

wow such negative feedback