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redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 07/18/08 05:24 PM Edited by redhead44613 on Fri 07/18/08 05:27 PM
seems like alot of people on here dont wanna get married again, they have done an made that choice, all I have to say is you never know!! I used to think like that, Im never gonna get married but now I want to someday. how can you say that? are u scared you will mess up again?? well welcome to life! do you stop driving cuz ur scared u will get another ticket? do you stop buying milk cuz ur scared u might get a bad one? No so why would u say no to marriage? yes I am young an I dont know cuz I have never been married blah blah! all I am saying is dont make that choice yet.. you are still young an you never know what life is going to throw your way!! keep your mind open

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 07/18/08 05:27 PM
marriage ruins all good relationships...once you get married the other person thinks they own you...this I have seen hundreds of times...but good luck to you

Megan_Smiles Joined Tue 04/08/08 Posts: 526	Fri 07/18/08 05:27 PM
Well I think different situations call for different reactions. Like, my mom has been married and divorced three times. She's not ever getting married again. She's 43. I think she's right to say that.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 07/18/08 05:28 PM
marriage ruins all good relationships...once you get married the other person thinks they own you...this I have seen hundreds of times...but good luck to you see u r thinking negativtly!

RKISIT Joined Tue 01/08/08 Posts: 16721	Fri 07/18/08 05:29 PM
remember the #1 reason for divorce is marriage

Etrain Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 19684	Fri 07/18/08 05:29 PM
marriage ruins all good relationships...once you get married the other person thinks they own you...this I have seen hundreds of times...but good luck to you see u r thinking negativtly! sweetie...I've lived it...and seen all my friends live it

maxxximus007 Joined Mon 11/13/06 Posts: 6082	Fri 07/18/08 05:29 PM
seems like alot of people on here dont wanna get married again, they have done an made that choice, all I have to say is you never know!! I used to think like that, Im never gonna get married but now I want to someday. how can you say that? are u scared you will mess up again?? well welcome to life! do you stop driving cuz ur scared u will get another ticket? do you stop buying milk cuz ur scared u might get a bad one? No so why would u say no to marriage? yes I am young an I dont know cuz I have never been married blah blah! all I am saying is dont make that choice yet.. you are still young an you never know what life is going to throw your way!! keep your mind open

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Fri 07/18/08 05:30 PM
some one is doing there math

dungonmasterRJ Joined Thu 10/26/06 Posts: 3613	Fri 07/18/08 05:31 PM
see i dont thnk that way at all i have been married and devorced already and plane on gettin married agen i dont thnk its the marrage that rouins the relationship at all i thnk when you really are with that person that u know is the one you will want to cause that is what is ment to be

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 07/18/08 05:32 PM
marriage ruins all good relationships...once you get married the other person thinks they own you...this I have seen hundreds of times...but good luck to you see u r thinking negativtly! sweetie...I've lived it...and seen all my friends live it my parents have been married almost 25years, my mom was married 2times before she met my dad, she didnt wanna get married again but then she met my dad... you never know!!!

Nursenell76 Joined Mon 06/09/08 Posts: 630	Fri 07/18/08 05:32 PM
Marriage can be a wonderful thing if you are married to the right person. I still believe I will remarry one of these days. Don't let all the negativity get ya down. Most people who are afraid of marriage are afraid of commitments in my opinion. There are just too many choices out there for people. Seems like no one wants to settle down these days. BAH But I am hopeful.

redhead44613 Joined Fri 01/18/08 Posts: 12976	Fri 07/18/08 05:34 PM
see i dont thnk that way at all i have been married and devorced already and plane on gettin married agen i dont thnk its the marrage that rouins the relationship at all i thnk when you really are with that person that u know is the one you will want to cause that is what is ment to be thank you!! see someone understands

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Fri 07/18/08 05:35 PM
I say not, but one does not know what the future holds.

mscherbear Joined Fri 03/07/08 Posts: 15111	Fri 07/18/08 05:36 PM
Marriage can be a wonderful thing if you are married to the right person. I still believe I will remarry one of these days. Don't let all the negativity get ya down. Most people who are afraid of marriage are afraid of commitments in my opinion. There are just too many choices out there for people. Seems like no one wants to settle down these days. BAH But I am hopeful.