haha not to be rude I have standards i have a bachelors degree am working on another , i have a full time job. My bf works with computers and is financially stable, i'm sorry if you want a guy making 6 bucks an hour working at kfc and living at his moms house, then yay for you maybe there's a trailer in the future however i'm not being snobby i'm being realistic that the guys i look for aren't fast food workers in their 20-30's. If you're a teenager it is fine but after that get a real job with a 401k, retirement plans, medical coverage. You need to own your car, own your home, and be able to buy things without suffering. Realistic.

RLM sorry for hijacking your thread!

I truly was not trying to be rude. But many companies have had to down sized, leaving very few options open for some people. If being a janitor or working at KFC is all you can get, then you need to take what you can get until something better comes along.

When families fall on bad times, you need to do what you have to to survive, that is all I was trying to say.

That's OK...sounds like you and the sorority girl need to settle this in the Octegon...royal rumble style.

Not really anything to settle, just a difference of opinion and a little misunderstanding between us.