to everyone who thinks i,m a ***** i guess time i need to explain myself
first is rape thing. second is i,m a long ways from home in a strange
county i dont really no the way to talk here. i dont understand lots of
things here so please if i made anyone mad i,m deeply sorry thank u
gina

Gina no need to apologize, I can understand your difficulty with our
language English is not the easiest language to be fluent in. sometimes
we can be a bit boorish, you are entitled to your opinion

gee wiz.. this girl is a fircracker!!! wow

no worries gina.

hang in there mami keep yuh head strong.....holla if yuh need me......

I donot think you need to apologize. I understand-
my mom is Korean and when she came to
to the US it was very hard for her.
She has been here over 40 years- still has a hard time
writing and some ppl donot understand her.
Some treat her as being stupid because of it.
She is far from that...a very smart woman.
Just keep going!!

So, are you here too meet someone, make new friends, or vent about all
the things you're bitter about, just so that you find yourself
apoligizing every now and then? You'll find that there are alot of good
MEN and women here, don't be so judgemental, we all have our tale of
woe, in time, hopefully you will have found a way to deal with your
issues in a possitive manner, rather than just lumping the folks around
you into catagories. Good luck Gina, hope you figure things out for
yourself.

Nurjoyce, thats a good point about how some people wrongly think that
broken english means the speaker is stupid. and i agree with the people
who say its wrong for gina to lump a whole category together, but when
you've been traumatized by something its hard to be fair and reasonable.