Topic: Would you rather be
Messerschmitts's photo
Mon 07/14/08 02:30 PM
complimented on your looks or your intelligence? I think most people (esp. women) would want to be complimented on their intelligence because they don't want to be seen as an object. But personally I was kind of the nerdy overachieving ugly duckling growing up, so I feel extra touched and special when a girl actually tells me she finds me physically attractive.

I guess it's whatever kind of compliment you get less of that you crave. It's the aspect of you that you're most insecure about. I would tear up if a girl told me she thought I was beautiful, and I believed her. I would probably marry her! bigsmile Sure it's nice if she thinks I'm smart too, but I'm not applying to be her tutor :-p

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Mon 07/14/08 02:33 PM
neither... stupid and ugly has worked purdy good so fer

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Mon 07/14/08 02:34 PM
don't give a crap either way.

Messerschmitts's photo
Mon 07/14/08 02:35 PM

neither... stupid and ugly has worked purdy good so fer


Aww, c'mon you have a lovely blue hue to your skin! :-D And I'm sure you're very smart.

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Mon 07/14/08 02:35 PM

neither... stupid and ugly has worked purdy good so fer


i dont think thats true flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Riding_Dubz's photo
Mon 07/14/08 02:39 PM
A compliment period would work about now,

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PATSFAN's photo
Mon 07/14/08 02:57 PM
I get compliments every now & again, do I believe them? No, but it's always nice:smile:

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Mon 07/14/08 03:00 PM

complimented on your looks or your intelligence? I think most people (esp. women) would want to be complimented on their intelligence because they don't want to be seen as an object. But personally I was kind of the nerdy overachieving ugly duckling growing up, so I feel extra touched and special when a girl actually tells me she finds me physically attractive.

I guess it's whatever kind of compliment you get less of that you crave. It's the aspect of you that you're most insecure about. I would tear up if a girl told me she thought I was beautiful, and I believed her. I would probably marry her! bigsmile Sure it's nice if she thinks I'm smart too, but I'm not applying to be her tutor :-p

Who gives a damn what others think .
It is what you think that is very important .
After all it is your life .

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Mon 07/14/08 03:00 PM

complimented on your looks or your intelligence? I think most people (esp. women) would want to be complimented on their intelligence because they don't want to be seen as an object. But personally I was kind of the nerdy overachieving ugly duckling growing up, so I feel extra touched and special when a girl actually tells me she finds me physically attractive.

I guess it's whatever kind of compliment you get less of that you crave. It's the aspect of you that you're most insecure about. I would tear up if a girl told me she thought I was beautiful, and I believed her. I would probably marry her! bigsmile Sure it's nice if she thinks I'm smart too, but I'm not applying to be her tutor :-p

Who gives a damn what others think .
It is what you think that is very important .
After all it is your life .

merlin2525's photo
Mon 07/14/08 03:01 PM
Women are always after something.
I don't believe too many things I hear