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Topic: Your Partners Phone And Emails
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Mon 07/14/08 10:45 PM

happy If you're in a serious relationship, do you think you have the right to see all the messages on your partners phone and emails, and for them to see yours?happy
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Mon 07/14/08 11:00 PM
Edited by Amathyst2 on Mon 07/14/08 11:03 PM
The way I see it is, if your going to be in a relationship with someone, everything should be in the open. I wouldn't care if someone I'm with wants to read my email, texts, etc.. If someone wants to be with you, then you share your life together. Unless you have something to hide. It isn't about trust issues. It's about being an open book, with an open heart and mind. I have yet to find someone who really understands that concept.

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Mon 07/14/08 11:05 PM
its called accountability...each has to be accountable to the other. should i be able to look through her phone? yes. should she be able to look through mine? yes. where this is cool is...should she have to? should i have to? nope...if you find yourself needing to look and cant...danger is imminent... i needed to look through hers, she got real mad and protective when i did, now we are divorced...ummm...get it?

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Mon 07/14/08 11:37 PM

its called accountability...each has to be accountable to the other. should i be able to look through her phone? yes. should she be able to look through mine? yes. where this is cool is...should she have to? should i have to? nope...if you find yourself needing to look and cant...danger is imminent... i needed to look through hers, she got real mad and protective when i did, now we are divorced...ummm...get it?


Yeah I get it.. Then don't get mad and protective. That's where the trust issues lie... You have to learn to trust..

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Mon 07/14/08 11:38 PM

happy If you're in a serious relationship, do you think you have the right to see all the messages on your partners phone and emails, and for them to see yours?happy


I'm not intrusive like that. If I wanted to know I would ask, and if I still didn't believe/ trust him then I would move on.

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Mon 07/14/08 11:39 PM

happy If you're in a serious relationship, do you think you have the right to see all the messages on your partners phone and emails, and for them to see yours?happy


if you trust your partner, whats the point? They wouldn't have anything to hide and if they did, it's there gilt not mine.

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Tue 07/15/08 05:16 AM

What 'rights' does being in a relationship enable you to have, that you didnt have prior??? Who has given you these rights???

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Tue 07/15/08 09:24 AM

either you trust them or you don't.
everyone has the right to a little privacy
but without trust there is no relationship


Ain't it the truth:smile:

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