I met this girl about 5 months ago. Everything was awesome, but in the past few weeks shes been hard to get in touch with. She used to call everyday, or whenever I called se always answered the phone, but thats not benn the case for a while.. Tonight she invites me up, so I go. Everything seems cool when I get there. She hugs me gives me lots of kisses, and basically clings right to me.. She wasnt all the way ready to go out she had to shower. While she is in the shower someone named Joe i will exclude the last name, keeps callin. So after she was ready she said she needed to call her mom for a minute, but she walked into another room to do so, wich she never does. When she comes back I tell her i need to make sure my teenaged daughter is ok, cause she was spending the night at a friends house. I pick up the phone and hit redial and it dials this joes guys #. I hung up and asked her did her and joe have a nice talk. She imidiatley gets mad and wants to argue.. I just get up and leave...When I get home she calls to say joe was just a friend of hers she says shes only talked to him a couple times anyway, and nothing has ever happened, i tell her if it was that inocent why lie about it..She wants me to come back to her bu I dont think I can trust her...Someone help me out here..

move on love...

Yeah, she has been seeing someone else. She told you different to spare your feelings.
I don't know that I would have hit the redial on the ph. though. Kinda invading her privacy.

no trust no relationship, move on

Time to move on sweets...shes not the one for you...if "Joe" was just an innocent friend..then why couldn't she talk to him on the phone in front of you..why lie about it? Sorry this happend to you sweets.

stick a fork in it. sorry. it's done.

invading her privacy???

thats crap...

she is messing with his heart and emotions..

I'd hit the button in a heart beat..

good for u Mich....

move on

Run boy , and run fast . She is a cheater . Is not only a friendship there betwen them .And if it was why she need to hide in the other room to make a call .Give you self some respect .You are not going to get any from her . I know well what I am talking abt it

You just caught her in a lie bro. One of the sighns someone is cheating is a change of routine. Joe is likely more than a friend obviously. When the lies start its time to go. Also she was hard to get in touch with for a reason.

OK, valid points, but was this an exclusive relationship? I don't see a problem if it wasen't. Going on to someone elses ph. like that is like looking in a womans purse, ya just don't do that. Poor form on her part yes.

Agreed. All he did was hit re-dial. If she's honest she has nothing to worry bout

Very exclusive... But I mean what was I supposed to do... I knew something wasnt right, and I knew I was being lied to.. I had to know...I had not been in a relationship for over 3 years over this same crap..

Whatever bro. I bet if the shoe was on the other foot it would be different

OK, well then, I stand corrected, if this was a serious thing, consider it done.

Bummer

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Something stinks when you have to leave the room to call your mom.Sad to say it's gone astray you deserve better.As my mom would have said " pick yourself up and dust yourself off."Keep walking there's someone else waiting to meet you.

I have tried for 35 years maybe I should just call it quits, i mean im not looking for pitty or anything but it seems this is how it always ends... I dont know what to do.. I was realy falling for this girl and I dont know it just hurts realy bad..

If you keep picking the same woman, same results. Maybe your picker is broke.

Never give up being who you are.If a loving relationship is what you want go after it, but this girl has already proved in five months that she can't be trusted.And I would have hit redial too if I had any suspitions.