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Topic: Is it just me?...
zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Sun 07/13/08 12:07 AM
hell...I'm unfortunately still legally married.. haven't seen him in 3 happy yrs.. that part of life is gooood... now if I could just find the sucker to divorce him... And I can understand that... But What I'm talking about are the few... That their spouses have noo idea what they're up to. I understood what u were saying..and it is sad that married ppl r being so deceptive.. if unhappy move on..

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Sun 07/13/08 12:12 AM
I haven't been married yet and am still looking forward to it. You are beautiful. thanks

littleike Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 4325	Sun 07/13/08 12:12 AM
I haven't been married yet and am still looking forward to it. you will make someone a great wife

wraithme66 Joined Wed 11/21/07 Posts: 1909	Sun 07/13/08 12:15 AM
hell...I'm unfortunately still legally married.. haven't seen him in 3 happy yrs.. that part of life is gooood... now if I could just find the sucker to divorce him... And I can understand that... But What I'm talking about are the few... That their spouses have noo idea what they're up to. I understood what u were saying..and it is sad that married ppl r being so deceptive.. if unhappy move on.. Ahmen! I hope to only do it one time. EVER.

buttons Joined Mon 11/06/06 Posts: 25783	Sun 07/13/08 08:26 AM
there are several reasons married people are on here..sad nthing you can only see the negetive reasons... perhaps they met on here? perhaps they were on here before they got married and met some friends on here and want to check in with their friends.. perhaps they dont live near others and like to conversate?perhaps they want ideas from others to do something special for their spouse? etc... i have seen some of the best advice on here come from married people...just as single people are on here for dating.... their are all different reasonings... some bad some good

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 07/13/08 09:12 PM
Um, there are a TON of married men on here, and couples who want a 3rd person in the boudoir!!

iRon Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 2786	Sun 07/13/08 09:24 PM
It would be nice if they would tell you they're married before you take them home.......thats all I got to say

ElaineSeekingJerry Joined Thu 05/01/08 Posts: 978	Sun 07/13/08 09:24 PM
I had 2 married men contact me in one week ... only thing I can say to their credit is that they were both 'honest' about their status (and both claimed to be committed to their wives despite 'seeing what was out there'). Thanks, but NO thanks ... aye eye iye.

guyguy1225 Joined Sat 09/15/07 Posts: 1936	Sun 07/13/08 09:25 PM
hell...I'm unfortunately still legally married.. haven't seen him in 3 happy yrs.. that part of life is gooood... now if I could just find the sucker to divorce him... you can file a missing spouse divorce

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Sun 07/13/08 11:02 PM
hell...I'm unfortunately still legally married.. haven't seen him in 3 happy yrs.. that part of life is gooood... now if I could just find the sucker to divorce him... you can file a missing spouse divorce thank you...I may be movng back to FLA..he is in the sarasota area...I will find him...

LIJOMA Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 2591	Sun 07/13/08 11:15 PM
Maybe in some unconscious way this is the reason I have never been married...... I have first hand experience in what a married man is capable of doing, all the lies to me and to his wife. Basically tore up 2 families at once. Will not go down that road again!

Voluptuous Joined Tue 12/18/07 Posts: 1203	Sun 07/13/08 11:21 PM Edited by Voluptuous on Sun 07/13/08 11:48 PM
I had 2 married men contact me in one week ... only thing I can say to their credit is that they were both 'honest' about their status (and both claimed to be committed to their wives despite 'seeing what was out there'). Thanks, but NO thanks ... aye eye iye. Gross POS... I can't stand unfaithful people If you aren't happy in the relationship- say so and get the hell out! Most try to have the best of both worlds not taking into consideration they are tearing apart two lives. I haven't ever been in this situation, nor do I hope to ever be... I think the Lord knows I don't have the patience for crap like that and I would cut the SOB.

domination Joined Fri 06/20/08 Posts: 506	Sun 07/13/08 11:24 PM
If you can't "find that someone" to divorce them, you can file for divorce and the courts will go through the proper/legal steps to find the person (e.g. postings in news papers etc) and if "that someone" does not reply/contest/agreee, the court will grant you a divorce. So, if you REALLY want it done & over with...just do it.... hell...I'm unfortunately still legally married.. haven't seen him in 3 happy yrs.. that part of life is gooood... now if I could just find the sucker to divorce him...

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sun 07/13/08 11:26 PM
i gotta set some restrictions to my profile at this time.. i had them set..but a married one slipped through my filters...

Elizabeth98999 Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 393	Sun 07/13/08 11:48 PM
same goes for married men....I see lots of profiles on here for married men looking for someone to be discreet. If they are looking for something "different" maybe they should go home and visit the wife again. Well said.

DestinysDream Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 4805	Mon 07/14/08 12:33 AM
Or Am I finding more, and more unhappily married women on here? I thought this was a singles website? Aren't there sites for unhapily married persons? Common! It's tough enough as it is already... Not without all of this marriage drama. You can blame Ashley. I think there are a number of guys who are married here. At least that is what my friends have told me. They keep a low profile so we can't call them out on the forums. Blame them and others willing to go to web sites like the one below. Someone is paying their bills. Meet Married Women - Married But Feeling Unfulfilled? Find Local Like-Minded Partners. www.AshleyMadison.com