But you are not....... WTF?! 7' Bald an heavyset?!

it's hard to find honest people anymore...and then when their are honest people, others bash them for being too honest...

this from a person who wont post a pic of themselves..... i consider the source and move on.
at least your honest about your weight which is exactly what this is all about.

Here this would be better suited for you.

.. ATTENTION ALL WOMEN
Rambill is shallow because he expects you to be model when he makes Mr. Rogers looks good. if this offends you, then dont contact him.

thank you starry. its easier to shoot the messanger than admit the truth....

u ever have a 7 week bloat before? talk about a water tower !!! ugh yea the way i feel oh yes im heavyset!!!! jiggle jiggle

I never said i wouldent date someone who is actually " a few xtra pounds"....as long as they are honest about it. Why is it so terrible that i point out a truth? I never said i was arnold swartz.... what you see is what you get. I expect no less from a potential mate.

Having someone describe their weight as accurate as you think is not a Sin!!!!!!!!!

There is plenty of room for interpretation of what is just a few extra pounds & what is more.

If anyone needs to get over it, it is you.

BUTTONS, IF YOUR HEAVYSET IM ARNOLD SWARTZ. LOL.

The fact that you are sooooo upset about this says differently!!!!

Actions speak louder than words!

how about you drinking a galon of water... then come back on here and tell me you dont feel heavyset? oh yes must be done all at once... and in 30 min

Mabe you should shoot the messanger, eat some more bob bons, and sit on the couch all day while being mad at me , instead of dealing with your weight problem, which you are obviously upset about or we wouldent be having this conversation.

LMAO............
You are so wrong. I am not personally insulted but, angry on the behalf of the poor woman that you came here to ridicule.

I like who I am. I do not fret if I am or am not fat.

My concern is for any other women who would without knowing make your acquaintance. Unlike the shallow individual that you are, most people would care about the personality of those they met versus their physical appearance. Since your lack of physical beauty appears to be equal to lack of inner beauty, I feel that it is wise to warn these ladies. Thus, for the sake of these women, I suggest that you are as honest in your profile as you expect them to be.

Good points (from Alexia), but Rambill........ C'mon man. Are you on acid? You are arguing with a cartoon character!

good point. she misses the fact that im not bashing heavy people, but rather those in denial about it.

You are the one that is missing the point.
You are the one that fails to understand honesty. If a person puts in their bio that they are a few extra pounds big but, are in fact bigger than you expect, then it does not equate to them lying necessarily.
It could very well be that they do not consider themselves fat or at the very least embarrassed about their weight which most women are regardless of their weight.
If something as insignificant as this has you steamed enough to create a post in the hopes of ridiculing the person that you are referring to, then you are lying to us all including yourself that this post is about being honest and honesty.
It is would be different is they said that they were single but, actually were married. That would be dishonest and deceitful. What you are describing is not since it is in the eye of the beholder.

in the case of the persons im thinking about, its in the eye of anyone with eyes. lol.
Not to recognise the facts as facts is either denial or an outright lie. in either case its game over as why would i want to be around someone who is
A- not comfortable about themselves and therefore
B- TELLS A LIE, or
C- IS IN TOTAL DENIAL.
THIS WHOLE THREAD was intended as a heads up for those who need to hear it. you know who you are.

Proof that you came here to public humiliate another member for no other reason than she was heavier than you expected. Please do all women a favor & be honest in your profile as you seem to except of this poor soul!


Because of this person weight, you are assuming that they have nothing else to offer a relationship. You are making far too much of this than it really is.

Do not forget to update your profile!!!!!!!!

It is a shame but, I doubt that you have learned anything about compassion and human understanding.

no its becaue i caught them in a lie before i even have a chance to chat with them. thats the part you keep missing.