I dont trust any profile with only one pic and its smokin hot!
Now for the personallity,thats where you realy take your
time.No way to always be totally positive.If they are fake and playing
games sooner or later they will screw up and contradict theirself.Most
of the time I dont even say anything to them about it.I ask more
questions around that screwup to let them hang theirself and do it
again.At anyrate the first screwup is a red flag.If they wont answer
certin questions,red flag.Do yourself a favor and move on.

I don't know about another website, but Im talking about jsh
we got some really good people here, and as you see this site is
different then others that's why Im here,
I have real friends and real relationships and don't have a problem,
with treating a fake person nice just the way they want to be treated,
but my friends are real and I love them
you see some of us can handle this situation,
but I will say it again,
if you don't have a problem with this and your real, why come on and say
ohhh Im real, I talking to the fakes not the real people
and if you want to help those who are hurt by those fakes than
we need your advice, on how to help them not get hurt and learn how to
find out if the person they are talking to is real,,
you may have all the dating stuff down and may be real
but that is not the issue, there are sensitive people getting hurt let
and right by unsensitive fake ass people
please give advice to those who will read this and appreciate your
input,,,
is really nice to think about others feelings not only your
if we can do this often the world would be a better place.

I m real and have 2 people on here to prove it LOL

Watch out for ones that move too fast.
Don't ignore the red flags.
Ask alot of questions in time don't have to drill them.
Have fun but always be aware of what is said.
Watch out for those that change there stories.
Don't push too much just pay attention to things that are said.
Don't jump into sexual talk that can wait.
Talk to them online, e-mail then the phone really get to know them for
them.
Talk about your child hood get them to join in.

COMMUNCATION IS THE KEY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

hey i'm real, what else would i be............lol hi everyone.

sorry k i only have one witness.......lol

I'm real as well...and I don't need anybody to prove it!
My words speak for themselves.

no offense newguy, but that world has been long gone. now it seems like
you have to prove yourself all the time.

No witness for me yet.Almost ment one in person but circumstances made
us miss each other by a day.Still want to meet her but it would be as
friends.I think through talk on serious things my thoughts are always
the same.Some of the ppl that have been here for awhile know im real.

lol the sex talk.. yeah.. seems to be a lot of it.. i do have to say i
don't really have anything negative to say about this site.. i haven't
really talked to many people on here, i don't know a lot of them.. but
thus far, it's more than a dating site. a lot of sites don't have the
general discussion and forums and all that.. it's just straight to the
point, at least this way, we get to read what people are about.. or say
they're about..

and yes the questioning.. it works wonders!!!!!!!! i used to only put
one pic up, but then i was thinking if i only put one up, who's to say i
didn't just grab it offline somewhere.. so i put many up... and direct
people to my myspace... cuz that's where the people i hang out with
everyday are... they know i'm real lol ... it's good to see support and
interaction.. you guys are awesome!!!

can you please give some advice to those who have been hurt by fake ass
people,,

Thank you Txs, love you girly ((((((((((((((Txs.)))))))))

if you want to prove that your real why not take the pic
with a jsh sign with your screen name on it,,,
that should be prove, so no matter if you say that your real
that does not mean you are, but I love you anyway, I don't look at
peoples face I see the heart,,,
but if is so important to you to prove your real, take the pic
with the sign, and your screen name....

but this topic is not to ask if your real or not
just concern for some people who have told me, have been hurt by some
member here who was a fake, now understand this, please

i don't think it should be about proving yourself real.. this is after
all relationship advice ;) i think if you honestly believe and know
you're real, that's all that should matter.. you don't have to take the
time out to prove yourself to anyone.. just being you is all that's
needed. it speaks volumes over "i'm real"

i'm sorry to hear about your friend being hurt morena. :( it's horrible
to feel that way and be put in that position.. at least for me it causes
mistrust and being leary of just about everything. but if at first you
don't succeed try try again and eventually you'll be able to stop trying
cuz usually, for most people, it all works out in the end :)

Advise to those who've been hurt by fake ass people...
1}{research} check the profile...check out thier freinds.
2}{observe} see what posts they engage in and what thier responces are.
3}{inquire's} ask questions....past history....future goals.

i'M REAL!

Thats why I said before....I sit back and observe what's being
said...and by who is saying it and where they are saying it and who they
are saying it to!
OBSERVE!

thank you new guy,,

No problem morena....now I'll just do what I do best....sit in the
shadows and observe.

my bad... back to ya

I personaly would never meet some one off the internet with out first
seeing them and them seeing me.i have had to many bad experiences. so i
bought a web cam for 20. bucks. theres no better way to see the reaction
as you're chating on line. and guess what no surprises. when you meet
and you know who you're looking for when you meet.

that is a great way, horseraiser