aloha anyone ever meet a cold heartless manipulating ,woman atfer 2yrs you figurd you would know each other well was i in for a bomb,i come from hawaii i just moved here in jan08 because me and my cold heartless ***** of a female partner, we disscussed all, i even question her 20 times if she was ready live together, and she keep saying yes im ready i love you and want to send the rest of my life with you, so ell every thing and move with me and together will grow old together, yah right, 6month in to it she comes home and says u got to leave cus im taking her space away she doesnt want to be in a committed relationship, get out.anyone have any advise for a confussed hawaiian guy im stranded.

since you put this under advice im going to give you some even though it is not going to sound nice


MOVE ON



if she wasnt into you
yes be mad for a few then get over it
while you are dwelling or "b^tching" about it and her the one who you might actually really click with could be passing you by!

also it is a waste of your time
i bet she isnt wasting hers

I feel for ya...been in a situation like that myself. Only it was 3 months. Had literally nowhere to go except back to the place I left 34 yrs ago....the place I grew up. Damn and they say you can never go home again.....wrong

Sorry that happened to you, but now is the time for you to find someone who will appreciate you. I hope that maybe you can find what you are looking for on this site. Have a great night.

For future reference, if you ask someone 20 times the same question, perhaps you already knew the answer and needed assurance to support denial of reality. Been there, done that, own a few t-shirts too.