Topic: RED flags.......
longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:28 AM
I've had some women on 1st message wanting to take conversations to other sites- yahoo, my space, etc. When I explained I do not do that because of security reasons and that I'm tired of cleaning out tagging, cookies, viruses, and spam; I get messages back telling me I'm stupid. Ok? Wtf?

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:29 AM


(((((((Fade))))))flowers

Yeah... and I forgot about the dude with two kids by two different women that lived with his parents and spent hundreds of dollars on toys for himself, like transformers and model planes. frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated

I think I might have a PhD in red flag relationships, not just a degree.....tears



Hey Puffins .. and Lilith ..

Ya maybe we could start a support group bigsmile

I would LOVE that....we would be able to weed out all the nonsense. But I am not trying to BASH all, some are VERY nice.

biggrin flowers biggrin

lilith401's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:29 AM
YankeeBelle,

Hey there baby....:wink:

buttons's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:30 AM
yea i say whats the point that is what you are on here for...

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:31 AM
C'est La Vie

need foresight to sort the sheep from the goats

I forget the stupid people I come across along my way and always remember the nice ones using the experience gained in the meantime to deal with the next possible idiot.

So far the judgment and the verdicts are in my favour.

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Fri 07/11/08 06:33 AM
how about the girls that....

after 2 beers wants to sleep with you...



robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:34 AM
good luck keep sleeping with them if they are worth it

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:34 AM
Don't even get me started about "Mutual Matches". I wind up deleting all of them....

They don't even say.........."HELLO"!!!!!!!

what offtopic think

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:34 AM
If when you are messaging someone and every reply has the statement "What do you mean by that?!!" in it you are looking at a red flag of insecurity issues of epic proportions.

lilith401's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:36 AM
LHB~ What do you mean by women who say what do you mean by that? rofl

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:38 AM
"I went for a bike ride around the lake saturday". "Oh yeah! What do you mean by that?!!!" <---- red flag.

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:40 AM


I would LOVE that....we would be able to weed out all the nonsense. But I am not trying to BASH all, some are VERY nice.

biggrin flowers biggrin


That is exactly right drinks

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Fri 07/11/08 06:41 AM
I was talking to this one guy and he said he couldnt get his wife pregnant, so she found someone that could (in his house), he just found he had cancer, he lost all his money, didnt have friends or family around, He insulted me, calling me a nobody , said he doesnt know why he is telling me this.
I told him I wished him well in looking for what ever he was looking for and sorry about all his bad luck.
Then he said "no dont stop talking to me I need a friend".

Anyways.... I stopped talking to him.

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:41 AM
Edited by robert1652 on Fri 07/11/08 06:43 AM

If when you are messaging someone and every reply has the statement "What do you mean by that?!!" in it you are looking at a red flag of insecurity issues of epic proportions.


I must admit red flags are being spotted more often that not these dayslaugh

lilith401's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:42 AM

"I went for a bike ride around the lake saturday". "Oh yeah! What do you mean by that?!!!" <---- red flag.


Lol, you are such a riot. Do you respond with Oh I thought you lived near there so I wanted to stalk you....pitchfork

longhairbiker's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:46 AM
I find women who hate men so much because of their past relationships that they have to put threats of bodily injury and death threats in their profiles a red flag. I give them kudos and extra brownie points if they start their profiles with an ultimatum. "I've got four kids and if you don't like it you can just die, f*ck off, jump off a cliff,___________<-----fill in the blank with ultimatum of choice. BIG RED FLAG.

lilith401's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:46 AM

I was talking to this one guy and he said he couldnt get his wife pregnant, so she found someone that could (in his house), he just found he had cancer, he lost all his money, didnt have friends or family around, He insulted me, calling me a nobody , said he doesnt know why he is telling me this.
I told him I wished him well in looking for what ever he was looking for and sorry about all his bad luck.
Then he said "no dont stop talking to me I need a friend".

Anyways.... I stopped talking to him.


Was it because you could no longer talk as he stuffed the red flag down your throat? smokin

robert1652's photo
Fri 07/11/08 06:49 AM
Edited by robert1652 on Fri 07/11/08 06:50 AM

I've had some women on 1st message wanting to take conversations to other sites- yahoo, my space, etc. When I explained I do not do that because of security reasons and that I'm tired of cleaning out tagging, cookies, viruses, and spam; I get messages back telling me I'm stupid. Ok? Wtf?

It is normal my friend
When a woman doesn't get her way she generally rants and raves
Take no notice
Carry on regardless and have a laughlaugh :laughing:
On a second thought the taxidermist up the road could be a solution for them too

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Fri 07/11/08 06:51 AM


I was talking to this one guy and he said he couldnt get his wife pregnant, so she found someone that could (in his house), he just found he had cancer, he lost all his money, didnt have friends or family around, He insulted me, calling me a nobody , said he doesnt know why he is telling me this.
I told him I wished him well in looking for what ever he was looking for and sorry about all his bad luck.
Then he said "no dont stop talking to me I need a friend".

Anyways.... I stopped talking to him.


Was it because you could no longer talk as he stuffed the red flag down your throat? smokin


Yep, how did you guess..... lol laugh

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Fri 07/11/08 06:51 AM
that's got to be the most common for me....

"they" send an email saying whats your email address.....??????

WTF...???

i say just send it here.....then poof

"your an a hole ....i'm not doing that"

laugh laugh laugh laugh





I've had some women on 1st message wanting to take conversations to other sites- yahoo, my space, etc. When I explained I do not do that because of security reasons and that I'm tired of cleaning out tagging, cookies, viruses, and spam; I get messages back telling me I'm stupid. Ok? Wtf?