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How the hell do you change "your type" if you always end up with the same exact person just in a different model?
I attract and am apparently attracted to liars and alcoholics....how do I change this before I'm so damaged that I never trust or believe anyone again? |
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Set your profile to Intimate Encounter
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mhh not sure..usually u are kinda attracted to the same guys that were like ur dad..was ur dad a alcoholic by any chance..it may just be something that u are used to...its hard to break the cycle..i usually end up w/ sweethearts..but I am the ***** in the relationship..I am not gonna lie about that one..lol..keeps men on their toes..
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change where u look sweetie
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Usually when people chase hot looking people, they wind up disapointed
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LOL no that would attract my usual too
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You need to work on YOU. You will attract the same type of people if you change nothing about yourself. Change your profile. Maybe it's something about that, that attracts these type of losers. Be smart about what you say....men are intimidated by smart women.
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I don't chase hotties, most of the time these guys approach me and I'm attracted back...even the ones I don't find attractive but seem sweet and I date are the same too
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Set your profile to Intimate Encounter |
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Set your profile to Intimate Encounter umm yea that'll do it..u'll get a bunch of perves then. |
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Set your profile to Intimate Encounter umm yea that'll do it..u'll get a bunch of perves then. |
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How the hell do you change "your type" if you always end up with the same exact person just in a different model? I attract and am apparently attracted to liars and alcoholics....how do I change this before I'm so damaged that I never trust or believe anyone again? There is a term for this in psychology I have forgotten It basically says someone from the past may be an uncle father or someone with those characteristics has been like a role model which one subconsciously follows like for example men who like larger women more than likely had big size mothers when children |
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The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place...
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The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place... I agree! And maybe she needs to change "where" she meets these people. If it's on here---change your profile or be careful how you talk to people. If it's at the BAR....that's the problem. |
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The only way to change your "type" is change yourself. Spend time getting to know you, making a good life for your self and the rest will fall in to place... I agree! And maybe she needs to change "where" she meets these people. If it's on here---change your profile or be careful how you talk to people. If it's at the BAR....that's the problem. This pretty much sums up my thoughts as well. You might want to take a look at where you are meeting these people. If you are meeting people in an atmosphere where drinking is the main focus why does it surprise you that it might be an issue for them? |
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look for the one's who shows their weiner like me
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I have to say I should probably take a look at this one on a different level myself. I think that it is the opposites attract rule in action. I attract flirts and people who are attention hounds. And I know going in that while I find it funny in general that it won't work for me in a relationship. I just don't have it in me to share "my guy" with the masses in the flirt arena. So why do I persist in trying to believe I can learn to live with it? Not happening.....
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gewt a lie detecter kit and avoid guys that frequently drink
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Let the person know when you are talking with them that drinking is an issue for you & that you expect Honesty & open communication....
I demand that & will bring up most any topic or whatever is on my mind....it usually takes women back a step or two at first cause they are not used to it....but it is also refreshing to know that uninhibited conversation brings people closer & is much more intimate... |
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