Topic: Still in love?
Voluptuous's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:11 PM

I would say if he is deceased its ok to still love and be in love with him. When your ready to except that and be in love with someone else then you ar ready to move on. No reason to stop loving that person.


I have come to terms that I won't ever stop loving my husband.
I don't expect to find someone like him again.
I try to appreciate what everyone has to offer. I look forward to new and exciting relationships.

It's better than being in love with someone that walked away from me. He was taken. The love he had for me was *sigh*- just that.

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Sat 07/05/08 11:11 PM

I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...?

I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.:cry:

i love my wife...... she mothered my children....... far as loving her enough to live with.... Nope...... Voluptous...... once agian you have my sincere condolences..........flowerforyou

Voluptuous's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:12 PM


I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...?

I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.:cry:

i love my wife...... she mothered my children....... far as loving her enough to live with.... Nope...... Voluptous...... once agian you have my sincere condolences..........flowerforyou


Thank youflowerforyou

ArtGurl's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:13 PM

I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...?

I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.:cry:



:cry: flowerforyou


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Sat 07/05/08 11:15 PM
Edited by UplandHunter on Sat 07/05/08 11:17 PM


I would say if he is deceased its ok to still love and be in love with him. When your ready to except that and be in love with someone else then you ar ready to move on. No reason to stop loving that person.


I have come to terms that I won't ever stop loving my husband.
I don't expect to find someone like him again.
I try to appreciate what everyone has to offer. I look forward to new and exciting relationships.

It's better than being in love with someone that walked away from me. He was taken. The love he had for me was *sigh*- just that.

Keep that feeling in your heart and demand that if you do it again its similar or better. Rmemeber it will never be exactly the same.

Dark_Valentine777's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:16 PM
I still love my ex, but I left him. He still flirts with and all thoe which is kinda confusing. Oh well.. life goes on.

Voluptuous's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:18 PM

He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf.


If there is a man that feels threatened by my MEMORIES...then he is NOT the man for me.


ricg's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:18 PM
I 've been In love ,with her for 13 years ,maybe because I havent been with the right one, I can wait.

Beachfarmer's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:21 PM
Edited by Beachfarmer on Sat 07/05/08 11:30 PM


He post's a threat because you're still in love with him. You won't be able to fully give yourself to another as long as you are. You will be cheating the prospective bf.


If there is a man that feels threatened by my MEMORIES...then he is NOT the man for me.




That's Just Dumb! (but idiot men like this actually exsist)

laugh I'm going to pick and choose the elements of your past which I allow to affect you.

Possessive Asses are doomed too misery!

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Sat 07/05/08 11:26 PM
laugh

Voluptuous's photo
Sat 07/05/08 11:26 PM



I would say if he is deceased its ok to still love and be in love with him. When your ready to except that and be in love with someone else then you ar ready to move on. No reason to stop loving that person.


I have come to terms that I won't ever stop loving my husband.
I don't expect to find someone like him again.
I try to appreciate what everyone has to offer. I look forward to new and exciting relationships.

It's better than being in love with someone that walked away from me. He was taken. The love he had for me was *sigh*- just that.

Keep that feeling in your heart and demand that if you do it again its similar or better. Rmemeber it will never be exactly the same.


...This IS what I hope for.

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Sat 07/05/08 11:55 PM
my ex passed away jan 24th..I love him and i love the fact hat he gave me two wonderful children..Ill always love him but i no im not IN love with him..Thing with me is ill always have pictures of him around my house for my children and for me.I just hope no guy gets offended because his pictures would never come down..

Voluptuous's photo
Sun 07/06/08 12:26 AM

my ex passed away jan 24th..I love him and i love the fact hat he gave me two wonderful children..Ill always love him but i no im not IN love with him..Thing with me is ill always have pictures of him around my house for my children and for me.I just hope no guy gets offended because his pictures would never come down..


Look at what Beachfarmer wrote.
Don't let anyone that stupid in your life

Pata's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:14 AM
noway ............thats why he´s my ex.......

OrangeCat's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:19 AM
glasses

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Sun 07/06/08 01:21 AM


my ex passed away jan 24th..I love him and i love the fact hat he gave me two wonderful children..Ill always love him but i no im not IN love with him..Thing with me is ill always have pictures of him around my house for my children and for me.I just hope no guy gets offended because his pictures would never come down..


Look at what Beachfarmer wrote.
Don't let anyone that stupid in your life



So long as both of you ladies were willing to accept the opposite. Meaning if you did not have this experience, could you understand and accept a man in your current position?

Knowing you will never replace a person they still love? Someone they will always compare you to?

Etc.... Etc....

Voluptuous's photo
Sun 07/06/08 01:43 AM



my ex passed away jan 24th..I love him and i love the fact hat he gave me two wonderful children..Ill always love him but i no im not IN love with him..Thing with me is ill always have pictures of him around my house for my children and for me.I just hope no guy gets offended because his pictures would never come down..


Look at what Beachfarmer wrote.
Don't let anyone that stupid in your life



So long as both of you ladies were willing to accept the opposite. Meaning if you did not have this experience, could you understand and accept a man in your current position?

Knowing you will never replace a person they still love? Someone they will always compare you to?

Etc.... Etc....


I'm not comparingnoway
I'm just not going to settle either.
I want to do better. I want "more"...what human doesn't?

I would LOVE to love again.
It is what my soul desires

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Sun 07/06/08 01:49 AM




my ex passed away jan 24th..I love him and i love the fact hat he gave me two wonderful children..Ill always love him but i no im not IN love with him..Thing with me is ill always have pictures of him around my house for my children and for me.I just hope no guy gets offended because his pictures would never come down..


Look at what Beachfarmer wrote.
Don't let anyone that stupid in your life



So long as both of you ladies were willing to accept the opposite. Meaning if you did not have this experience, could you understand and accept a man in your current position?

Knowing you will never replace a person they still love? Someone they will always compare you to?

Etc.... Etc....


I'm not comparingnoway
I'm just not going to settle either.
I want to do better. I want "more"...what human doesn't?

I would LOVE to love again.
It is what my soul desires



Well hopefully you find it. I just would hate for you ladies to overlook some of us men who are that "Diamond in the Rough".

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sun 07/06/08 02:12 AM

I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...?

I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.:cry:


A dead guy is a tough act to follow, especially if he was a good man. If he drank his liver away, well, that's all too easy.

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Sun 07/06/08 02:20 AM


I'm interested to know how many out there are still in love with their ex...?

I know I am...but my husband serves no real "threat" to a perspective BF because he passed away.:cry:


A dead guy is a tough act to follow, especially if he was a good man. If he drank his liver away, well, that's all too easy.



Good point Joe