Topic: my bf won't introduce me?
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Sat 07/05/08 05:55 AM
dating my man for a year, he hasn't introduced me to any of his family or friends. i haven't asked him to meet any of my friends either because i feel like he wouldn't be interested, hes met my mum and my sister before but i havent asked him to meet my dad.

i've asked him why he hasn't because everytime he mentioned a story about an ex it involved his friends or family being around in the story and he said that he doesnt do that anymore.

which doesnt make sense coz he was with an ex for 2 years before me and it sounded like i am the gf after her...so really what makes me so different???

should i maybe open up more and get him to meet the people in my life and hopefully he might feel comfortable to do the same thing with me???

we haven't exactly had a stable relationship so maybe he doesn't feel like he can until we maybe get our **** together...

i dont know bit confused??

bobdesigns4262's photo
Sat 07/05/08 05:56 AM
start charging more per visit..you'll get more repsect

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Sat 07/05/08 05:58 AM
the bastard has a wife or woman on the side.dump him.

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Sat 07/05/08 05:58 AM
sounds fishy to megrumble

FearandLoathing's photo
Sat 07/05/08 05:59 AM

dating my man for a year, he hasn't introduced me to any of his family or friends. i haven't asked him to meet any of my friends either because i feel like he wouldn't be interested, hes met my mum and my sister before but i havent asked him to meet my dad.

i've asked him why he hasn't because everytime he mentioned a story about an ex it involved his friends or family being around in the story and he said that he doesnt do that anymore.

which doesnt make sense coz he was with an ex for 2 years before me and it sounded like i am the gf after her...so really what makes me so different???

should i maybe open up more and get him to meet the people in my life and hopefully he might feel comfortable to do the same thing with me???

we haven't exactly had a stable relationship so maybe he doesn't feel like he can until we maybe get our **** together...

i dont know bit confused??


Don't bother with it, meeting parents sucks anyway. Wait until they are inlaws, I'm sure they will meet you at the wedding.

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Sat 07/05/08 06:02 AM
the "unstable" relationship sounds like it might be just a sexual one.....if he seems to be "hiding" you from friends and/or family.. dump him..he is probably just using you. Hope I'm wrong...but JMOflowerforyou

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Sat 07/05/08 06:08 AM

the bastard has a wife or woman on the side.dump him.




My first thought too.

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Sat 07/05/08 06:13 AM
not tryin to be mean but if after a yr he refuses? your not his gf. your the on the side thing. get rid of the married jerk!