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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
  
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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
 Ive been in fear for my life
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Stay Chilled.
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Most people on here are very understanding and wont hold it against you!!! alot of us are like family and help each other through rough times and Im sure they will do the same for you!!
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Edited by
FaithfulOne78
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Thu 07/03/08 08:34 AM
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 Take a few deep breaths....calm down...relax...know that drinkin more..isn't gonna make things any better....keep your chin up sweets...life is never as bad as we feel it is...things will improve for you in time..I wish you luck
if ya ever need someone to talk to..you can drop me a line..i'm always here and willin to listen.
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snappy and terse are some of my best qualities
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dont ever be ashamed of being an a s s hole.it takes talent !
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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
Moving is one of the most stressful things we put ourselves, especially one to a different state. Take control. Put down the bottle/can Make a list of things to do. Don't look at the big picture, it can overwhelm and discourage you. Take it one thing at a time and then move to the next. I take it your new living situation is getting you out of the bad one you're currently in, stay focused on that and the positive change it will be for you. Know we're always here should you need to vent. Best of luck to you and your future plans in your new home!
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dont ever be ashamed of being an a s s hole.it takes talent ! +1 
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shhh cant talk now......The squirrels are watching!!!!
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It's understandable because you are stressed out.
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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
((intrepid00)) hun just slow down take alittle time just for yourself relax and try to deal with one thing at time have a great day |
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Stress can do many things to us, and it is good to be able to vent to release it. I didn't use to think that way and I kept all the stress bottled up inside of me. At the age of 41 I had a series of 6 ministrokes caused by high blood pressure caused by stress.
In my opinion if you need to throw a tantrum do it in private, and vent all you want to your friends that are willing to listen. Stay healthy and good luck with the move.
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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
I'm from California & think it is a fabulous state to live.... just keep thinking that it won't be long & you'll be out of your terrible living situation....things will get better....heck, here you can even make a living by standing with a sign on the Freeway off ramps.... |
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to me lately. I kind of understand. I'm in a temperary but terrible living situation and I'm getting ready to move across the country to California and there is just so much I have to do to get ready to go. I've been drinking way more than usual but worse, I'm stressed out and I've been snappy and terse with people and have even thrown public temper tantrums like a 2 year old. I do have A LOT on my plate; some things I don't want to discuss on here. I don't really know the point of this thread or if this is even the right place for it. I just am usually a chill guy that is likable but lately have turned into a loose cannon
...what,... ever.... 
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Drinking brings out the best in us, doesnt it?!
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Get your **** together. Be a man. I've moved so many places where I knew nobody, had no known prospects and did not have a plan except to see a new place. It's easy if you just take that step. If you KNOW that you're strong, smart and a valuable asset, then leave today, not tomorrow. If you don't...stay home at mommys and get drunk in the basement. My reccomendation would be put the drink down and start packing...light. Theres plenty of time to drink when you get settled
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Edited by
FreeToB
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Thu 07/03/08 02:12 PM
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Oh..and for the California lover. Southern Cal is plastic people in a plastic world full of shallow thoughts. Politically correct idiots who live in a world that only exists elsewhere in the movies. Save the snail darter and pay 16 bucks for a 2x4. No drilling and 5 dollar a gallon gas. Make a car have so many gadgets and anti-pollution BS it costs 10 grand extra. Dont say NIGGER in public, only behind closed doors in the company of the other "beautiful people". Been most everywhere in the US and S. CA is by far the worst as far as people go.
I had a great job there but the people are generally not very nice...like me. lol Got a bit of a thorn in my side for CA. Can ya tell? And what a good piece of advice from CA guy...make a living being a BUM on an onramp? Truth is, most young people that set out for the bright lights end up being whores or hustlers. Lots end up dead. Most come home that survive. Go up to Eureka (N. CA) and smoke some Cush bud though. Worlds best. That'll mellow you out. Then head up to Seattle to work. But don't listen to me. I'm just a guy thats travelled extensively...although not by thumb much. I say go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You may be the next Tom Cruise. |
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Oh..and for the California lover. Southern Cal is plastic people in a plastic world full of shallow thoughts. Politically correct idiots who live in a world that only exists elsewhere in the movies. Save the snail darter and pay 16 bucks for a 2x4. No drilling and 5 dollar a gallon gas. Make a car have so many gadgets and anti-pollution BS it costs 10 grand extra. Dont say NIGGER in public, only behind closed doors in the company of the other "beautiful people". Been most everywhere in the US and S. CA is by far the worst as far as people go. I had a great job there but the people are generally not very nice...like me. lol Got a bit of a thorn in my side for CA. Can ya tell? And what a good piece of advice from CA guy...make a living being a BUM on an onramp? Truth is, most young people that set out for the bright lights end up being whores or hustlers. Lots end up dead. Most come home that survive. Go up to Eureka (N. CA) and smoke some Cush bud though. Worlds best. That'll mellow you out. Then head up to Seattle to work. But don't listen to me. I'm just a guy thats travelled extensively...although not by thumb much. I say go for it. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. You may be the next Tom Cruise. I've been all over this country (in like 36 different states) and to Southern Calif. like 10 starting with a cross-country road trip when I was 18 that started in Philly and ended in Seattle but I spent most of it in CA. One thing I noticed is a lot of babes (many plastic, yes) and a lot of gays . To all of you thanks for your support
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welcome to the land of snappy and terse ..i would say you are in the right place ..i mean if we didnt come here to vent to people we dont know where would we go ..YOU ARE NOT ALONE..
o'yea..
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