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Topic: Have you ever been cheated on?
horseracer Joined Thu 09/07/06 Posts: 584	Mon 06/30/08 07:25 PM
Have you ever been cheated on ? thats why I am single again me to

kriesybear Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 508	Mon 06/30/08 07:25 PM
Yes

jonny63 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 5229	Mon 06/30/08 07:26 PM
Bad subject! How bout have you ever NOT been cheated on.

Lord_Psycho Joined Thu 06/26/08 Posts: 14878	Mon 06/30/08 07:26 PM
i would never unless they they are cheating on me! so far i had girls cheat on me with losers!

mrscupcake Joined Sun 04/27/08 Posts: 470	Mon 06/30/08 07:27 PM
yes

BlndwBdge Joined Mon 10/30/06 Posts: 473	Mon 06/30/08 07:30 PM
Yes, once. He was young, dumb, and full of $%@...he couldn't help it! LOL. I'm ok now. I had a lot of time to heal from it and I know that not all men are cheaters.

IslandPearl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 93	Mon 06/30/08 07:45 PM Edited by IslandPearl on Mon 06/30/08 07:51 PM
Have you ever been cheated on ? You know what's sad about being cheated on? You are convinced it's YOU .. that you failed. That you weren't good enough, or if you had just done this or that .. or whatever. Beautiful sharp women/men have been cheated on .. has nothing to do with the person being cheated on .. everything to do with the mind of the person who does the cheating ........... So true! It took me a long time to figure that out that it was not me. It happened to me with every guy since Kindergarten. In my early 30's I gave up on relationships with men. Well, at least nothing more than a friendship. Now after many years I have more hope that someone great will come into my life. In the meantime I've been online for a while and the quality does seem to be improving. Then I had a recent set back. I suspect my recent Interest is cheating on me. I recognize the signs, and I recognize all the same hurts. I know I don't need a person that treats me this way. All of this just means I am still learning what I want and need in my life and learning how to take better care of my heart. I guess that is a good thing since I am not dead yet. hahaha!

Zewi Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 1331	Mon 06/30/08 07:46 PM
no(as far as i no)

lov2fish Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 549	Mon 06/30/08 08:34 PM
yep.. the same person cheated multiple times.. my ignorance for putting up with it and giving chance after chance.

johnboy072472 Joined Fri 12/28/07 Posts: 4874	Mon 06/30/08 08:36 PM
Have you ever been cheated on ? Cheated on.... mentally raped.... nearly destroyed.... check.

rzepkow1 Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 1680	Mon 06/30/08 08:37 PM
Healing comes with time... Growth comes from experience... Love comes with risking again...

kayliz88 Joined Sat 03/08/08 Posts: 1023	Mon 06/30/08 08:37 PM
Yes...then he wanted me back and like an idiot I took him back...and he cheated on me again...with the same woman.

chuck35 Joined Wed 06/11/08 Posts: 496	Mon 06/30/08 08:39 PM
Yes i tried to ignore it She kept calling him i left him lying in the ditch in front of his house

Dragoness Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 23320	Mon 06/30/08 08:40 PM
yep

IslandPearl Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 93	Mon 06/30/08 08:43 PM
Have you ever been cheated on ? Cheated on.... mentally raped.... nearly destroyed.... check. "mentally raped...nearly destroyed..." - OMG! So true! That's it exactly!! Good phrase.

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Tue 07/01/08 12:50 AM
if by drugs or alcohol count, yes. Drugs and alcohol by themselves could be considered cheating, regardless of whether they did the deed.