if you want to have a good relationship, never have one in the first
place.

AWW Duffy, you know that ain't so.

ahahaha, bitter are we? It's okay, no - if you want a good relationship,
this is going to sound cliche and terrible but you have to love yourself
first you also need to be cautious and a bit choosy. The people that
constantly have relationships are those that throw themselves into too
quickly or aren't emotionally ready for one in the first place.

The bad ones make you appreciate the good ones more. Even if there is
something of a gross statistical imbalance.

Good relationships DO happen. I have been both fortunate and
unfortunate. But it would never prevent me from developing another
relationship with a wonderful person.

Humm if you never have one then how do you know if it would be good or
bad?

good question, mstxgal--good----[yawns]

sorry--sleepin'

Ready for bed, Shaddow?

if you want a good relationship you have to work at it

If you want a good relationship, you need to start at the basics. You
need to have a good friendship. A good friendship can lead to a romantic
interest. With care, respect, and caution, that romantic interest could
turn into a loving relationship.

With further nuturing and care, that love could turn into a marital
prospect. Remember this, you need to start off as friends first. If you
started off as friends, and you've come all this way, and you feel that
magic inspiration that you want to spend the rest of your life with that
One person, then WHY ON GODS EARTH WOULD YOU WANT TO SCREW IT UP BY
GETTING MARRIED?

Marry someone you dont know. Sleep with your friends, and their friends.
Keep your priorities straight.

If you really want to KNOW who YOU are,get into a relationship.

I HAVE A QEUSTION AND I COULD REALLY USE SOME FEEDBACK. ME AND MY
BOYFREIND JUST HAD OUR SECOND CHILD FOUR MONTHS AGO. I WENT BACK TO WORK
6 WKS AFTER HE WAS BORN,THE PROBLEM IS MY BOYFRIEND HAS TO BE TO WORK BY
3:00 PM AND MY WORK DAY IS NOT SUPPOSED TO END UNTIL 4:30. I HAVE BEEN
LUCKY SO FAR AND MY EMPLOYER HAS BEEN LETTING ME GET OFF AT 2:30 SO HE
CAN TAKE THE CAR AND GO TO WORK. BUT THINGS ARE PICKING UP AND I NEED TO
START STAYING LATER, AND SEEING IS HOW WE SHARE A CAR AND I MAKE MORE
MONEY THAN HE DOES THE ONLY OPTION IS FOR MY BOYFREIND TO EITHER QUIT OR
TLAK TO HIS EMPLOYER ABOUT GOING IN LATER. THERE IS ANOTHER CONFLICT I
NEED HELP WITH, HE BOUGHT THE NEW XBOX 360 AND GOT IT HOOKED UP TO THE
INTERNET AND ALL HE WANTS TO DO IS PLAY THAT THING. I AM AFRAID THAT IF
HE DOES HAVE TO QIUT THAT I WILL ALWAYS COME HOME TO A MESSY HOUSE AND
HIM PLAYING THAY GAME...........I AM SO CONFUSED PLEASE HELP ME

counseling

I GO ONCE A WEEK HE REFUSES TO GO

say goodbye

I THING THAT IS PROBABLY GOING TO BE THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP MY SANITY
INTACT.

you may not get everything you want,but you will get what you vibrate.