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Topic: do long distant relationships work?
starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Fri 06/27/08 07:23 PM
holla

DOTTIE Joined Tue 07/31/07 Posts: 2225	Fri 06/27/08 07:25 PM
It didnt for me but good luck anyhow.

TJokerzWild Joined Tue 05/08/07 Posts: 880	Fri 06/27/08 07:26 PM
Not often

lifestooshort6 Joined Mon 12/31/07 Posts: 6667	Fri 06/27/08 07:26 PM
me, neither especially with fuel costs

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Fri 06/27/08 07:26 PM
It didnt for me but good luck anyhow. thanks

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 06/27/08 07:29 PM
It's not for me.

rodfcutler Joined Sun 10/21/07 Posts: 1645	Fri 06/27/08 07:30 PM
It didnt for me but good luck anyhow. thanks Alot depends on if the real love is there or not. If it is,then all obstacles can be overcome.

mcattygarnett Joined Fri 12/07/07 Posts: 3527	Fri 06/27/08 07:32 PM
It depends on the two people involved and how bad they want it to work out.

andrew101888 Joined Fri 03/14/08 Posts: 2143	Fri 06/27/08 07:32 PM
Depends how far.

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Fri 06/27/08 07:34 PM
It didnt for me but good luck anyhow. thanks Alot depends on if the real love is there or not. If it is,then all obstacles can be overcome. your so fluckin awesome!! Thanks appreciated!!

starryeyed346 Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 412	Fri 06/27/08 07:39 PM
depends how much distance and the amount of time. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.... but for a long period of time... it just pulls you apart.

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Fri 06/27/08 07:41 PM
depends how much distance and the amount of time. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.... but for a long period of time... it just pulls you apart. the way I always heard that, and from my experience...absence makes the heart grow fonder, for somebody else. Distance seems to work the same way. JMAO

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Fri 06/27/08 07:43 PM
Not really

merlin2525 Joined Sun 06/17/07 Posts: 2819	Fri 06/27/08 07:43 PM
No.

ladyliz1417 Joined Wed 12/27/06 Posts: 51463	Fri 06/27/08 07:48 PM
I posted this same thread a couple months ago and most replies were negative. Didnt make me happy. If its meant to be, it will...no matter what!!!

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Fri 06/27/08 07:52 PM
I posted this same thread a couple months ago and most replies were negative. Didnt make me happy. If its meant to be, it will...no matter what!!! thank you

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Fri 06/27/08 07:54 PM
YES!...and we plan to lessen the distance very soon.

starlynsangel Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 729	Fri 06/27/08 07:56 PM
YES!...and we plan to lessen the distance very soon. WoW, thank you and congrats!!

HMontana Joined Thu 12/20/07 Posts: 5037	Fri 06/27/08 07:58 PM
It can work - and it does for some. There are sooooo many variables, however. For me, the big drawback is not being a part of day-to-day interaction. How does the person behave when stuck in traffic? Will they stop by your place of employment just to see you once in awhile? Do they put the toilet paper over or under? It might seem silly, but it's really the little things that COULD make or break a relationship.

Unique2468 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 964	Fri 06/27/08 08:17 PM
2 of my friends have 1 1/2 years in a long distance relastionship. Due to circumstances they have had no other choice. They should be finally living together in 2-3 months. I went through a 4-5 months long distance relastionship. Honestly, it's the same as any relastionship. If you make a commitment, it works fine. Remember though, the goal of a long distance relastionship is for both of you to end up together. I would, if possable, figure out a time frame where you would end up together. If neither party plans on moving to be together ever, then no, it wont work. You need the hope of being together to make it work and worthwhile. Cause there are alot of obsticles.