I scrool through the profiles and I notice that alot of us have put
"looking for Mr or Ms right".The thought that I have with this is how
are we to know waht right is. It seems to me that some and notice i
said some of us have a notion that when we meet that special person that
its just going to all be perferect. To be honest that only happens
sometimes we wont all be that lucky. Relationships take work and
dedication just like anything else. So after all this rambling my
question to you is, if we are all looking for Mr or Ms right who gets
em? We are all not looking for the same thing and it just seems to me we
might be happier and have more success looking for someone who is
willing to put in to the relationship as much as we give. This is just
my thought. To those who have found that love that just seems to be
perfect congrats and enjoy it because it is love stories like that that
keep us people like that the inspiration to keep looking for love.

Well country boy....We will all find mr or mrs right sometime. Who
might be right for one person, would not be right for another person.
Like you said we are not all looking for the same thing, so we would not
all choose the same person to the the *right* one for us. There is a
right one for all of us and we will know it when we meet them.

We are all not looking for the same thing and it just seems to me we
might be happier and have more success looking for someone who is
willing to put in to the relationship as much
as we give,, That my Friend is your answer,,, Relationships are a give
and take,, It takes two Souls willing to make compromise's for each
other in order to make it work, Trust, Honesty and Mutual Respect for
each other needs and Desires,, We are not perfect people nor do we live
in a perfect world, But I do believe thier is someone for everyone that
makes them feel complete,,, I have found my Soulmate here, and he is as
perfect as they come,, yes we all have baggage, but it would be a very
boring world without it,,, Good luck all i can say is keep your Dreams
alive,,, everything else seems to fall into place,,,

No relationship is completely and totally perfect...Even if it is with
your "soulmate." Ask those lucky enough to have found their life-long
partner, and they'll tell you EVERY relationship takes work and
dedication. Even relationships with family and friends. But I do believe
that everyone has that person that they're supposed to be with out
there. You just have to put forth the effort of finding that someone,
and I believe it takes alot of work finding your mate(mr. or ms.
right)..But good luck to everyone on here in finding that.

Well Put!!!

thats right..it's WORK..you A'll never realized that huh?..when the
going gets a little rough..you run..

these are things that take work..and suck it up!! and like it!!

controll
communication
sex
money
intimacy
emotion
stability
friendship
compromise
flexability
ego/humility
listening
space
dedication

I agree. Everyone has their certain criteria for what they feel is
attractive qualities in the opposite sex or partner. And you're correct,
no relationship is perfect, relationships take work from both parties
for it to be successful! Who's to say who is Mr Right for me or Mrs
Right for you?

THATS RIGHT.

When I find Ms. Right, I just hope her first name isn't Always.

yea..

Hi countryboy, I don't think that there is a mr or ms right,the best
relationships are those that are formed by secure, happy people who are
looking to enhance someones life not have a partner that you need to
define who you are. The happier you are with yourself, the happier you
will be in a relationship, and the key is "NOT" to settle,in order to
get what you want, you must be willing to let go of what you
don't.

what ever you can deal with!... it all gets old after a while!!

My "Mr. Right" would be someone I can feel comfortable with, someone who
makes me happy and emotionally "secure," someone whom I miss when he's
not around and who makes me go like this when he is.

Friends frst, go slow, lots of conversation, even more work, think w the
BIG head. You'll find what you want.

HUmmm well what every or whoever is Mr. Right guess I have not found him
or he has not found me yet lol Myself looking for someone I can be
comfortable with and enjoy some of the same things someone I can talk to
and enjoy being around no one is perfet and it does not end up like a
fairy tale were everything is all perfect. We must work for the things
in life we want. But if the love is there then anything is worth working
for as long as both know it takes two to make a relantionship to work.
All I can say he must have a sense of humor that is on the top of the
list. I love to joke around and so the sense of humor is a must for me
ohhhhh and he has to like to talk for I'm a talker as well.