Ok guys,.... I have a pretty good idea of what this means and I'm pretty good at reading between the lines, but just to be sure and have an accurate idea, I must hear it from you. Ok, ready?

When a guy says: "i'm looking to find a woman to have fun with,blah, blah, blah," is it safe to assume they mean ....fun as in fun sex wise??

yes, that and bowling....

Well, I'm not a guy but that's what I'd assume

Not a guy either...but yes, I would say they are just out looking for one thing...and a committed relationship isn't it.

Usually it does, but not always.
Depends on what else he has to say.

that is what I would assuem also

you know what they say about assuming

uh huh...the woman is usually right!

j/k!

Oh, I agree. But, experience says that when someone (male or female) says that, they really are more interested in a sexual relationship than anything else. It's unfortunate for those people who don't mean it that way, but I think that's the way a lot of people would read it.

either it means sex, or hes looking for a woman to have fun with aka go out places do things with " have fun" heres something new ask him what he means...or what he wants...

for the most part, i would agree...hey, just being honest.

yes.

It's kinda funny to see how a man is looking for a relationship but in his profile puts how he is looking for a fun time....

It just makes me laugh even more at them. LOL!

I agree with SuzyinVa. Trust your insticts on this. I recently had a guy look at my profile that is "just looking for a nice woman to get together with once in a while....maybe more." I suspect "getting together" means getting it on.

Friends with benefits ....that is how I would take that as.

Ohhh I see that and the first thing I think of is a bed partner and someone to hang out with but nothing serious.

Being the gentleman I am I would bet he means fun in the sack, I could be wrong but I doubt it!!!

Your probably right. I wouldn't put that in mine because I know thats what would be assumed. He could be a little naive and truly mean someone to hike with or something like that. Come right out and ask him. I bet he will tell you.

I agree with sorority...it could go both ways..you just have to ask and see...to me looking for fun would be all aspects of a relationship...walking hand in hand, cuddling on the couch, bowling, camping, going out to eat or the movies, playing putt putt, anything that will be fun for the both of you...once the relationship gets trusting, sex is just an added bonus that can be shared between two willing hearts. If the man respects you, he will wait and be patient and enjoy the togetherness you will have at hand like the activities I mentioned. Hope you work it out to find out.

it could mean that or it could mean he first wants to find a friend....someone he would enjoy spending time with doing activities together & having fun.....so i guess you might want to have him clarify what he means....