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Topic: is sixteen years older too big of an age difference
Sarabut08's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:14 AM
So, I met this guy and he's sixteen years older then me... I jsut found out... I thought he was twenty seven.. we hung out and had a lot in coomon, but I was curious how old he was and asked him.. when he told me his age.. I kind of gasped, but I really like him and I am more mature than msot girls my age, so could it work and is it wrong???

lgo's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:15 AM
all you can do is try and see.:smile:

no photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:15 AM
He may be very immature for his age......

Sarabut08's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:17 AM
no.. he's more mature than most guys I talk to.. he didn't want to get in my pants right away...

no photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:17 AM
If he's nice then so what! Go get himhappy

Gentoo's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:34 AM

So, I met this guy and he's sixteen years older then me... I jsut found out... I thought he was twenty seven.. we hung out and had a lot in coomon, but I was curious how old he was and asked him.. when he told me his age.. I kind of gasped, but I really like him and I am more mature than msot girls my age, so could it work and is it wrong???
If you like him, that's all that really matters. As long as you're both legal and cannot get into any trouble, go for it if you want to. You never know when a chance comes along so don't pass it by.

Just my 2 cents.

Max_Darkling's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:36 AM
My Father was 13 years older than my mother and they were married for fifty years when he pasted away. So no don't let the age thing discourage
you

Gentoo's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:36 AM
I will also say that I like this girl who is quite younger than I am. Probably not a chance in hell there but if there is I would go for it for sure.

Bexter's photo
Wed 06/25/08 12:42 AM

I dated a man last summer who was my age ... but he was used to dating girls 15 - 20 years his junior.
Needless to say, I dont need a daddy ... it didnt work out.

It's up to you both. If it seems to work then dont hesitate.
Love is too rare a thing to put a number on it!

Good luck!

yaya28's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:12 AM
Age is just a number, I think you should take a chance on him!

bad_girl's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:14 AM
Age is just a number doll, you do what feels rightflowerforyou

MirrorMirror's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:21 AM
:cry: 16 inches is too big for meohwell

bad_girl's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:25 AM
huh Mirror she is talking about agehuh behave

:cry: 16 inches is too big for meohwell

forever_fifites's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:30 AM
As it turned out - no one ever knew until after he died - my dad was 20 years older than my mom and she could never keep up. He never looked it nor acted it. Age is just a %^&*(I number and like math many people seem to have trouble with numbers.

Smiggers's photo
Wed 06/25/08 01:39 AM
follow your heart

Citizen_Joe's photo
Wed 06/25/08 02:27 AM

no.. he's more mature than most guys I talk to.. he didn't want to get in my pants right away...


Well, that makes sense. He is sortof .... OLDER than most guys you talk to, right? Just pray that when that time comes, ED is not the topic of conversation. laugh laugh laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/25/08 04:46 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Wed 06/25/08 04:48 AM

So, I met this guy and he's sixteen years older then me... I jsut found out... I thought he was twenty seven.. we hung out and had a lot in coomon, but I was curious how old he was and asked him.. when he told me his age.. I kind of gasped, but I really like him and I am more mature than msot girls my age, so could it work and is it wrong???


I think I am the resident "date HUGE age differences" woman on here, and I am on the flip side. I date younger, not older. Usually around 20 yrs or more younger. Last BF was 27 yrs younger. But if that's what you're happy with, who CARES???? It's all about who you hit it off with sweets.

I have had to tweak a couple things about dating so much younger, but once I made concessions for that all is well ..

I love younger guys because they are so much fun & I think a generation behind mine .. it's all about what works for you babe flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Started a thread about younger/older relationships .. it's rolled over 7 times. You are welcome to come post anytime ..


---> http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/135771

Joaverage's photo
Wed 06/25/08 05:06 AM
Fade, I agree. 20 years younger has made me very
happy. Works for me too!

Fade2Black's photo
Wed 06/25/08 05:14 AM

Fade, I agree. 20 years younger has made me very
happy. Works for me too!



flowerforyou drinker

Sarabut08's photo
Thu 06/26/08 10:14 PM
just go for it if you really like her.. I would...

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