DON"T DO IT!

you dont need a man to be happy anyway.

And as the next person said.............RUN, don't walk to your doctor and get ALL the STD and HIV tests, and if he loves you as he says, make HIM BETESTED as well BEFORE any intimate relations take place-----------I've been there - after our daughter died - I have NEVER felt so dirty in all my life.........I wanted to scrub my body with antiseptic and Brillo..........he refused to be tested, defending her (she was his ex-wife and WE BOTH KNEW SHE SLEPT AROUND (my daughter was the product of his first marriage, but we never had steps in our home........BUT I WENT THROUGH THE TESTING ALONE ANYWAY FOR MY OWN PEACE OF MIND ------OH, and incidentally, we're now legally separated, because he couldn't keep it in his pants after all........

I feel for you my dear, so I pray you think LONG AND HARD before you make your final decision.

I ran into my ex the other day...

and then I put my car into reverse and ran into him again!

I don't give advice to somebody who uses a picture of Hale Berry's body as her screen picture on her profile.

i think if ur hot and ur friends r hot u should ball it up and share the love,,,and send me video of this union.....just a thought.listen sugar pants hes just wantin to bang u again and nothin more ,if ur cool w/that go ahead .if u want an emotional commitment get a puppy...sorryjust a guys point of view.....

can you forgive and forget?..If so, then give him another chance..If you'll always be suspicious of every little move he makes..then its not worth it and time to move on I think.

To do it again? Just how pathetically lonely are you?

It's a fashion statement, cesar.

See that to me is the deal breaker too .. too close to home.

I don't believe once a cheater, always .. yada yada. People CAN change and a one-time mistake, especially if there were extenuating circumstances, can affect a person's judgment.

But if he cheated with someone who was close to you? NO WAY in hell.

yes because obviously he wont cheat again

Youll sit there wondering where he is at who's he calling. Its to stressfull Find a hobbie move on

You have to do what is right in your heart, with terms and communication that work for you.

However, don't go back with him if you think you can't handle it if it happens again or he does not "get" what he did. I think age, maturity, circumstance, etc play a large role here. Ultimately, you must decide if you think the relationship can overcome that and move forward. Good luck to you.

Oh sure. It is the healthy thing to do.

your profile "looking for intimate encounter"

sounds like you two are a match!

this is just my own opinion...i was married twice and I caught both my ex's cheating on me with so called good friends....you alone have to make this decission but if he did it once he will probably do it again... again its your choice!!! I left both my ex's with no second thoughts and no futher contact...But I also think you need to give your so called friend a better look over...a real friend would not do that to you!!!!!!!



just my own opinion...boonedog

why wouldn t he?