descent remarks from good people to a misleading lying poser. i, for one, have no sympathy for that. it just continues what so many of us ran from in past relationships. a fake should not be allowed to post or stay once identifed. sorry dreamz JMO.

Dream don't be so surprised they usually have good reason, it's not like that is the first one by the same...

hey.....alright, i only soughjt to help or make them laugh if they are sad......its what i do. anyone on here who knows me knows thats what i do best. i thought it was a genuine call for help and acceptance back into a group who does seem to care at times........

are you referring to my apology? because mine is deleted. i would think the deletion will have to the opposite effect but then again....some people just don't get some things....

and yes....there is a dictator, infact a few i find.

Thats what I was wondering...you can follow up on this here
http://www.justsayhi.com/topic/show/137012

I think its wrong to to kick someone off because she lied about her age etc and some guy got his feelings hurt because of this and went running and crying to management. It should have been just a good learning experience ...after all this is cyber dating and your not always going to find what you think on the other end of cyber-space!

are you serious?! there was some descent remarks in there from good people. and so deleting it helped you....how?!




descent remarks from good people to a misleading lying poser. i, for one, have no sympathy for that. it just continues what so many of us ran from in past relationships. a fake should not be allowed to post or stay once identifed. sorry dreamz JMO.


you have to kick off have the people on this site then...do you know how many women (and men) lie about their age here? geeezzzzzz get real

by stopping people who did not see the original post asking questions about the original post. In other words dead and buried

that was only 1/2 or maybe 1/4 of the story. so i guess if someone determines someone is fake, we just let it continue? it's people on here looking out for each other that keeps the real ones around.

I did that often but the offender showered me with abuse on private emails so I have given up instead I have read the rules memorized them and when I see deviation I warn the offenders and then if continues I report it

I still Women

and we you pats! keepin it real!!

that was only 1/2 or maybe 1/4 of the story. so i guess if someone determines someone is fake, we just let it continue? it's people on here looking out for each other that keeps the real ones around.


What she do then ..solicit men for sex and money? If it was just pretending she was someone she wasn't....well that goes on alot around here and it takes two to play the game...
"There is a sucker born everyday...and one to take him"
B.T. Barnum

Yes, and, questioning mod actions on the forums is also against the rules.

I'm going to overlook that and take some time to explain to you all.

Sometimes there are underlying issues. We try to handle most things privately, so as not to embarrass anyone on the boards. Obviously i can't go into detail, but i can tell you all, the right decision was made.

These mods work very hard, and they do a fantastic job.

I want to talk to you all a bit about the moderation process so you have a clear understanding.

When a thread is questionable, it is moved to the mod forums, where it will be reviewed by the moderators and administrators., and if deemed fit, will be returned to the boards, sometimes edited.

What i'm trying to tell you guys, is that you have no idea what the situation is with any thread, because we do handle things as much as possible behind the scenes. So there is no way you could know. Private situations are not meant for public knowledge.

Many of you never even read the forum rules, that in itself, would answer a lot of questions.

I wanted to take the time to explain this, in hopes you will all be a little more informed.

The moderators are here for the protection of everyone, please do take the time to read the forum rules.

Thanks for your time in reading,
Mark