Is it possible to love your husband or wife and family but seek more and
not be considered a bad person or do you just have to live with that.
Are we jerks?

Well, the answer to your question is yes, no, or maybe? Just exactly
what is your problem. I am a relationship expert. I can tell you that if
you get caught, you will be in deep kimshee.

If you are married, you should not be seeking an "extramarital
relationship," IMO. If you are married and unhappy with the commitment,
then get unmarried. To me, one of the main points of being married is
being faithful to each other.

Now, I don't begrudge someone moving on with their life if a separation
and divorce is "imminent," but I have absolutely NO respect for people
who are married who intend to stay married, but who just want a "little
on the side."

Hi coastie, very interesting question, and my opinion is that it does'nt
make you a bad person too get bored sometimes,but if you think always
looking outside the home for fullfilment is the answer, than you truly
are fooling yourself. sometimes we get married to the wrong
person or for the wrong reasons,if this is your situation than do whats
right and live with it,but if you love your spouse,then man or woman up
and look deep inside yourself and find that spark again,don't do whats
easy by giving in to temptation, try to do whats morally right.

OH if I was in a bad mood, I would chew you up and spit you out. So
thank me because I am in a very good mood

down kitty,,,downnnn!!!! you want a candy?

Only if it's chocolate, this kitty likes chocolate. yummy.