Topic: Be Really Really truthful
AutumnLee21's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:30 PM
Ive always thought that the truth was the best approach in life. So if i
am always being told that I am a big hearted person and i am funny and
outgoing and "cute" I am always getting the word cute thrown at me. and
that just makes me think that people like me b/c i am nice etc etc but
lacking in the looks dept when they are like your cute makes me feel
like i am 12 ha ha. So honestly people should I just put a paper bag
over my head and deal with the fact that i am hurtin? LoL. We cant all
look like supermodels now can we. Unfortunaly I got the ****ty end of
that stick Lmao :smile: thats ok though b/c I love the person i am

Sanna's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:35 PM
Autumn, Your not ugly at all. Have you looked in the mirror lately? I
think you're way too hard on yourself. When someone says you're cute it
may be cause you have a sweetness about you, maybe your humor, maybe the
way you act, laugh, it can mean alot of things. Not everyone judges you
from the outside. Keep your head up girl you are pretty girl! Don't take
the cute the wrong way!:smile:

AutumnLee21's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:37 PM
thank you Sanna just sometimes it is so hard to look at yourself after
watching t.v and supermodels are all over mag's now a days it sucks lol.
You have your good looking days and your not so good looking days i
think everyone has had one of them ha ha. thanks again :smile:

no photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:40 PM
I agree with Sanna, you look great to me! And, honestly, I would
probably be inclined to describe you as "cute" too, based on the pic,
but "cute" means different things to different people. I would intend
it to mean you looked like someone who would be fun to be around, as
well as attractive....

p.s. -- supermodels are overrated....

no photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:43 PM
I agree with Sanna 100 percent. You are WAY past cute. Look inside. IF
YOU like what you see, and the WOMAN you have become, then no worries.
True people will look right at you, not the surface you, BUT you and see
what is inside .. :) ..

Trust me .. been beat with the ugly stick a few times myself .. LOL but
all it does, I hope is form who I am , NOT what I look like...
understand ??.. I hope so .. NOW.. go get'em YOUNG LADY ...

TTO

AutumnLee21's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:46 PM
thank you TwoTallOne all of you are very nice and thank you for being
truthful sure made me feel better thanks guys :smile:

TxsGal3333's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:49 PM
Gawd are they over rated. Autumn the pic you have up right now you are a
very pretty girl and don't ever think any differnt and yeah I'm with
Sanna & Lex on the what we mean when we say someone is cute besids hon
when you get older even those things change but the person you are
inside will remain. So the kind of guys your talking about that don't
want you they are not worth having them selves don't put your self down
as not good enough just be thankful you did not get stuck with the
losers. bigsmile

Sanna's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:50 PM
Stop looking at the supermodels Deary! That is not reality. Each person
is different and each person is special in thier own way. Think about
your best features and use them wisely! Don't fall for just anyone! Your
special someone will come when its time!

no photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:54 PM
Amen ladies, you tell her ... If I was ohhhh 20 years younger and you
were say ...a foot taller ... LMAO .. sorry kidding ... well about the
foot taller part .. LOL.. but yeah you are STUNNNER ... don't let
anyone tell you different .. :)

lma's photo
Mon 02/26/07 01:56 PM
Autumn...

I totally think you are cute. You're pictures show your personality.
You've got so much to be greatful right now even though your heart is
hurting. No bags on your head please... it will just cover up those
gorgeous eyes of yours and that really would be a shame.

AutumnLee21's photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:02 PM
you guys are too kind thank you. and all of you are very beautiful in
all of your own and each ways. and to TwoTallOne I could always stand on
a big box and be a foot taller LOL hey thats why they make ladies shoes
the way they do nowadays lol I am always scared to fall and break my
neck wearing them ha ha

Sanna's photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:13 PM
Autumn, Keep your head up girl! Alot of peeps giving you real advise!
Luck and love for your future!

BigGlenn's photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:19 PM
You ARE cute!! THat's O.K.!! You have to think better of yourself. If
you are down on yourself, It shows. Pick your head up. If you need a
change, get your hair done. Cute is a good thing. Lift up your chin and
let the sunshine.

no photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:20 PM
Autumn, your damn hot, get used to it.

jeanc200358's photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:24 PM
Hey, chin up! I just got reunited with a man who was my high school
sweetheart ...or at least I was his; he never told me that he had a
crush on me back then, though. And then ten years went by and we saw
each other again and we dated briefly, but circumstances for both of our
lives led us to different paths and, up until the other day, another 25
years had passed before I saw him again.

He told me, "You know, Sheila, back then I thought you were very cute.
Today, I think you're gorgeous." (I might add, the years have been very
good to him, too!) But I thought that was awfully nice of him to say
that. Made me go like this...bigsmile love

Anyway...enjoy being "cute" while you're young. Later, you get to be
"gorgeous!"

Tneal's photo
Mon 02/26/07 02:35 PM
I was always told I was cute. But I too seen other girls were much
prettier than me. But they had a black soul. They were spitefull, mean
spirted, and just down right rude.

In the long run CUTENESS rules. Cause believe it or not, your life will
be better cause your cute.... I know... *S*

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Mon 02/26/07 02:40 PM
tneal, i sent an email to my geneaology bud. Will keep u informed.
Autumn, you sound to me like someone who has been told you dont
measure up, mabe by a boyfriend. Some guys try to make thier hotty think
shes a dog so she will stay with them. Your so much more than that.