Topic: would you?
dirtyblonde007's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:34 PM
would you wait a year and a half for someone you're not even dating... so that they can make up their minds while in iraq? knowing you have full caring feelings for this person and already waited 4 years?

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Fri 06/20/08 06:34 PM
no

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Fri 06/20/08 06:35 PM
Edited by kendrab90 on Fri 06/20/08 06:35 PM
wait for them

but have the UPS guy on the side


just incase of course


laugh laugh laugh laugh


jeffx420's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:36 PM

would you wait a year and a half for someone you're not even dating... so that they can make up their minds while in iraq? knowing you have full caring feelings for this person and already waited 4 years?
thats a long time to wait. TOO Long!noway

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Fri 06/20/08 06:36 PM
are you coocoo?laugh laugh laugh

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:36 PM
If his life is on the line and he's not sure he wants to be with you, why wait? Or is he not sure BECAUSE his life is on the line and he might not make it back and doesn't want to destroy you? I think the background matters to know how to answer.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:36 PM
Wait for someone I am not even dating???? I hardly think solaugh laugh laugh You are not dating him, so what are you waiting for, him to ask you on a date?

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:37 PM
I think hr's jerking your chain hon! If he cared at all about you and, was not interested in you that way, he would tell you to go.OR, he MIGHT want to marry you.

brooke007's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:37 PM
nope...

i will find out what i want in life and not worry about what somebody else wants.

shoesmonkey's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:39 PM

nope...

i will find out what i want in life and not worry about what somebody else wants.
Good ans.

MalenaC's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:40 PM

would you wait a year and a half for someone you're not even dating... so that they can make up their minds while in iraq? knowing you have full caring feelings for this person and already waited 4 years?


WHY DO YOU WAIT 4 YEARS ? OMG

livelife68's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:41 PM
No I wouldn't wait, not for someone I wasn't even dating. So that they could make up their mind...could be waiting for nothing.

willy_cents's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:41 PM

nope...

i will find out what i want in life and not worry about what somebody else wants.


that comes off as extremely self centered and a certain relationship breaker since relationships are based on compromise and concern for the other. Sure you didn't mean it that wayflowerforyou

merlin2525's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:42 PM
NOPE

OrangeCat's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:43 PM
hell no,they cant make up there minds,then they can do it else where

Peccy's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:43 PM
NOPE

Nursenell76's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:48 PM
NOPE! why waste your time. You might miss out on something or someone.

dirtyblonde007's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:49 PM

I think hr's jerking your chain hon! If he cared at all about you and, was not interested in you that way, he would tell you to go.OR, he MIGHT want to marry you.


he told me he had feelings for me but couldn't handle the separation.

brooke007's photo
Fri 06/20/08 06:50 PM


nope...

i will find out what i want in life and not worry about what somebody else wants.


that comes off as extremely self centered and a certain relationship breaker since relationships are based on compromise and concern for the other. Sure you didn't mean it that wayflowerforyou


actually i did...if its meant to be it will happen..time will tell

moving on with a persons life if the other person in the relationship is not clear about their feelings..can be for the best
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