Anyone have a relationship that seems to be going in the right direction... then suddenly, the other person just disappears?
Maybe I know a 'friend' this happened to recently..someone who had a girl that was crazy about him, all seemed fine, plans were being made for the future, then 'poof'..she's gone!! He tried calling her a zillion times..tried email...even had some help from her sister, but nothing... She won't tell him what went wrong...and he has no idea. There were no arguments...and the last thing she told him was that he shouldn't worry because she knew everything would work out for them to be together soon...
UGH!! who am i kidding? you all knew i was talking about myself...
I don't expect answers--i just had to get it off my chest...

that has happened to me, it's awful

Maybe she's just doing a little time. j/k

yeah....i had no idea...not a clue...she just hangs up the phone when i call...
and she was just telling me 2 weeks ago how good she feels about us and how much she wants this to work...

i like that idea better than getting dumped! lol

Honestly I would rather the guy just tell me the truth so I can move on without wondering wtf happened. It's a terrible thing to do to someone just because you are to chicken to tell the truth. Friggin cowards...

Awww, my (((Tony)))) Hang in there. Sometimes, there's no answers to life's hardest questions, it just is. Not that that makes it any better but you can't torture yourself over it either. You'll meet someone worthy of you, this I know

yeah..just tell me the truth--it can't be worse than this!

It's like that country song, "No News". Geesh!!

I understand that. It happens to us all at some point. I wish you luck.

thanks Suzin! you're a sweetheart! i'll be fine--i'm just so frustrated by it all though!!

I totally agree. The whole not knowing, wondering, and going over and over things in your mind. lol pretty soon you will start making up reasons as to how you screwed it up. The thing is, it probably isn't your fault at all. It seems to me she's the one with issue.

yep...and to think, she was dumped a few years ago herself...

thanks Jill... u r right..i have been wondering what the heck i've done but i can't find anything..and it isn't because i'm such a great guy..i just can't think of anything that made this happen

That's because YOU are not the problem. I can't tell you how long it took me to figure that out lol it seems so simple but it is true. My heart goes out to you, I know all to well what you're going thru

thank, Jill!! :) i appreciate it...

Look at it this way. You know now that she is a coward... do you really wanna date a gutless coward?

I just perved you. What a cute fam-damily!!!

hehe..thank you...my kids make me look good!! ;)

ok...good point.....

like i said before, i'm fine..i'll move on but i'm just frustrated... and i hope she doesn't do this to someone else...