So, I met this woman and the attraction was magnetic. Only met once but we've emailed many many times. She didn't want a second date because my divorce is not final yet (no problem).. we exchanged many text messages and it seemed we were both extremely attracted to one another.

Then, out of the blue she tells me don't email or text her anymore, saying that we're just not compatible... then she starts texting me again and before you know it we're back to talking like before. She even agrees to see me again, then stands me up by texting me "I just can't do it"

She tells me the reason is because she's afraid I may get back with my wife and she doesn't want to get hurt. I understand that completely and I have kept her posted of the progress of my divorce, she seemed very understanding.

So, we continue talking and our talks get pretty intimate and it seems we are so right for each other.. she even tells me so.

Then I get an email yesterday telling me to stop texting and emailing her, says I'm a nice guy but not right for her, doesn't want to get in a committed relationship, etc, etc... So, at this point I'm ready to try and forget about her.. I didn't reply.

I can't handle this yoyo stuff.

THEN, I see last night she viewed my profile again, then viewed it again this morning. WTF??

get on with your life honey....dont waste your time on someone that is going to play games with you and play with your emotions..there are to many good women here that would love to have your company....take care.....

if it were a woman still going through a divorce....i would be skeptical too. it is a real fear to put your love and trust into someone and then they dont commit themselves. we have all had this happen. why should she go through that pain again....even though you may be sincere in your quest....she still has to protect herself. put yourself in her shoes.

what you said is true, but on the other hand, she should not play with his emotions...if she does not want to meet him, leave him alone, dont keep getting his hopes up

Find you a real women who know's what the h*ll she want's!!!! Don't play the game with her even tho you sound like you really like her..

I was on the same..
Just turn the page, she is not for you.<--point

Hm, sounds like she is very into you, but no one wants to be the first relationship after a divorce. Those never seem to go anywhere. She could be worried that once you get your feet wet in the dating game again, you'll be ready to move on to someone else.

I saw your profile.
You are a handsome boy, and a good man.
YOU DON'T NEED A GIRL..just a woman
Good luck to you

i dated a woman from jsh recently. she also was still married. she told me it was for financial purposes. she still carried him on her medical plan as he had some conditions that would be expensive for him to handle without coverage. fine, i dated her for a month. went out nice places to eat,walk the dog in the park thing, but she would still tell me of trips to his house to do this,get this signed,whatever. after awhile it stopped me from furthering my feelings towards her. i was ok with the friends thing,but couldnt take them to the next level that she wanted. we have all been hurt at sometime in our past. its only hunan nature to want to protect yourself.

there's more to her than meets the eye. while i agree that fear of being hurt may play a part, who's talking love yet? there's attraction and you are both taking normal steps to see where it might go. there's too many fish in the sea for those games, and especially after coming out of divorce, why ask for more drama? move on.

I've continued to date since meeting her. I would find myself thinking of her while dating other women, I even talked about her to a couple of women I dated (yea, weird huh?)

I just don't recall ever having such a strong attraction to someone. I'm thinking she put some potion in my drink on that first date.

How long have you been separated from your soon to be used to be?

i would take care of "U" for a while..no offense to u, but most people try to find someone else after a break up to fill that "void" maybe..i did!! take care of U for a while. Your divorce isnt even final yet..

YEA WEIRD WOMAN SHE START DRIVING YOU CRAZY ALREADY ?

nah.....no potion in your drink! probably just a good heart still bleeding through! you seem like a nice guy. i hope it works out for you.....the divorce. when its complete it will be a whole different world. i was there too. i went through a tuff divorce also. maybe she will read these posts and see that your a geniune person? good luck dude!

Move on she sounds like a nut! Hey I will date ya

You got it!!!!!!

alrighty then, your place or mine =)

And like everyone else said, if she is making you crazy now, imagine what it could be like ten years from now. Sounds like a pot just waiting to boil over. There are plenty of fish in the sea sweetie!

Funny thing is I did not set out to "meet my next wife". Not by any stretch.

I'm just a people person, I like meeting new people, being around people.. I started dating just to begin enjoying my next 45 years.

I had dated several before meeting her, she just really caught me by surprise.

JUST BLOCK HER AND GET OVER WITH . THIS LIFE IS TO SHORT AND NO ONE COME BACK TO TELL US IF IS THERE ANOTHER AFTER THIS ONE . DON'T WASTE IT