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LETS SEE Lost shower my mind & heart beat racing
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that is way to soon ive been talking to this guy for about four months
he is upset with me for not meeting him yet but i dont feel like we still know each other that well yet im starting over sure going to be careful this time dont need to make anymore mistakes in my life |
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3 years. if then.
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my average has been about 2 monthes.
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I definitely wouldn't meet someone right away! I have waited from 3
weeks to 6 months. Just on friendship based meetings. I myself have met some that scared me to death. When upon meeting them they have revealed some of their issues. One guy was 45 minutes late for our meeting. As I was walking out of the door he came in and looked very upset. To my great dismay he was having a major anxiety attack just because he was meeting with me. He later told me he has major depression, has tried to commit suicide several times and many other issues. That was enough to change my mind for awhile about meeting people. The couple of guys that took the longest to meet are really great friends of mine now, even though they have girlfriends now! You can learn alot about a person when the are on the phone, remember to listen well and take your time! Sometimes you can figure out if they are in desparate mode! I had to learn that the hard way! |
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I say the same day, if ya'll chat all day or whatever and want to meet,
DO IT!!! Thats what it's all about isn't it. I mean, whatcha waitin for? |
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yep what chuckee said, and we are not getting any younger
roflmao!!! |
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yeah i agree meet them. but in a maul reasturant or any where thers a
lot ppl but i alys like to see them on cam and let them see me to. so no real surprises lol cam costs only $20. |
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spell chk plz lol
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whew, I was thinking you spell like you talk. lol. You know
how some people do? lmao. |
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well thanks i aaam from theee south lol ohio
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very funny chuckee!
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When you feel comfortable enough is when you should decide to meet, I
myself would not want to feel pressured. If the guy gets all huffy because you want to take it slow then you'll know it is not a wise decision |
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shes alys ben funny even in highschool lol
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Hi . I'm Glenn. Marry me!!
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Actually, I'm very shy, passive and insecure, ask anyone. Txs, Morena,
Tneal, Shadow, anyone, really, they'll tell you. |
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laugh:
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what?
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never...stay in a cave and stick to the internet its safer that way *
OUCH Chuckee quit throwin things at me..geeze..I'm just bein my usual smart ass self* j/k gurl lol |
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