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how do u deal with some one u've poured ur heart out to, told u were them u could see ur self falling for them hard. and having them turn around tell u that things with some one else (that u didnt even know existed) are getting serious, and they want to be friends........then turn back around in a few weeks and says they are sorry, didnt mean to hurt u, and isnt sure what to do, cuz all u do is make them smile while the other one just plays head games...
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you think you deserve to be 2nd best??
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It would take a LOT for me to trust someone who'd done that. I probably wouldn't bother. Move on
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how do u deal with some one u've poured ur heart out to, told u were them u could see ur self falling for them hard. and having them turn around tell u that things with some one else (that u didnt even know existed) are getting serious, and they want to be friends........then turn back around in a few weeks and says they are sorry, didnt mean to hurt u, and isnt sure what to do, cuz all u do is make them smile while the other one just plays head games... the next time they call or come over tell them to f*ck off and mean it...move on the the next mr right, right now, wrong, whoever... |
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You look at yourself and say, "I am better than that and I am NOT a sucker." Don't do it. You deserve better! Good luck.
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thats what i told my self i was gonna do...and its not really working.
i dont completly trust him. but i find my self looking for his txts and calls. |
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how do u deal with some one u've poured ur heart out to, told u were them u could see ur self falling for them hard. and having them turn around tell u that things with some one else (that u didnt even know existed) are getting serious, and they want to be friends........then turn back around in a few weeks and says they are sorry, didnt mean to hurt u, and isnt sure what to do, cuz all u do is make them smile while the other one just plays head games... I don't pour my heart out totally to anyone, 'cept my closest friends... 
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Continue the self destruction OR move on to better yourself? Hmmmmm seems like a simple choice.
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i'm always 100%honest with ppl, dont play head games, just tell things like they are...and i trust u off the get go unless theres some reason why i shouldnt..and it ALWAYS bites me in the bum...
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how do u deal with some one u've poured ur heart out to, told u were them u could see ur self falling for them hard. and having them turn around tell u that things with some one else (that u didnt even know existed) are getting serious, and they want to be friends........then turn back around in a few weeks and says they are sorry, didnt mean to hurt u, and isnt sure what to do, cuz all u do is make them smile while the other one just plays head games... 
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thats what i told my self i was gonna do...and its not really working. i dont completly trust him. but i find my self looking for his txts and calls. Hmmmm... maybe you are just lonely. Find someone better and I agree..... be cautious about simply pouring your heart out when you first meet someone. I tend to be the same way if I like someone, but I have learned to resist as it makes you seem a bit desperate. Get to know them little by little and tell them in spoonful bites if it is going good. My suggestion though still is know that you are not second best. Don't take him back just because he is begging. What you were not top shelf the first time around? |
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thats what i told my self i was gonna do...and its not really working. i dont completly trust him. but i find my self looking for his txts and calls. Hmmmm... maybe you are just lonely. Find someone better and I agree..... be cautious about simply pouring your heart out when you first meet someone. I tend to be the same way if I like someone, but I have learned to resist as it makes you seem a bit desperate. Get to know them little by little and tell them in spoonful bites if it is going good. My suggestion though still is know that you are not second best. Don't take him back just because he is begging. What you were not top shelf the first time around? i know i'm lonely...everyone around me is paired up and i'm not...but its never bugged me before... i dont normally pour my heart out to ppl...there was just something about the way we could talk to each other, that things just slipped out. |
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i'm always 100%honest with ppl, dont play head games, just tell things like they are...and i trust u off the get go unless theres some reason why i shouldnt..and it ALWAYS bites me in the bum... It sucks honey, but we gotta protect our emotional base... Take it in stages... |
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i'm always 100%honest with ppl, dont play head games, just tell things like they are...and i trust u off the get go unless theres some reason why i shouldnt..and it ALWAYS bites me in the bum... It sucks honey, but we gotta protect our emotional base... Take it in stages... honestly...i dont think thats something i know how to do... |
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i'm always 100%honest with ppl, dont play head games, just tell things like they are...and i trust u off the get go unless theres some reason why i shouldnt..and it ALWAYS bites me in the bum... It sucks honey, but we gotta protect our emotional base... Take it in stages... honestly...i dont think thats something i know how to do... It comes with age.... and being an emotional punching bag...TRUST ME... 
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shoot 'em
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guess this is something i've got to deal with on my own...the advice i've gotten is great...but idk going through with it makes me seem kinda cold, and heartless, and i'm not like that..
thanks anyways guys. |
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guess this is something i've got to deal with on my own...the advice i've gotten is great...but idk going through with it makes me seem kinda cold, and heartless, and i'm not like that.. thanks anyways guys. Hey, no one else is gonna look out for you but you, if that makes you cold and heartless...so be it... Look out for number one..ALWAYS.
You're fine, you're a smart girl, you'll get through it...
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Never make someone your priority if they only make you an option.
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Never make someone your priority if they only make you an option.
Well said! |
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