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dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Mon 06/16/08 03:24 PM
why don't guys answer direct questions like "how do you see us?" some of you know about a good old friend of mine and i and how i want to be more but will be content with just friends. its driving me crazy not knowing and he won't even email me or call anymore. he won't say what is on his mind.

Bornnaked Joined Sun 07/29/07 Posts: 2359	Mon 06/16/08 03:25 PM
I am always brutally honest.

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Mon 06/16/08 03:25 PM
The answer is yes & no

CleanBathroom Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 5544	Mon 06/16/08 03:25 PM
why don't guys answer direct questions like "how do you see us?" some of you know about a good old friend of mine and i and how i want to be more but will be content with just friends. its driving me crazy not knowing and he won't even email me or call anymore. he won't say what is on his mind. He's hedging on you. I'd move past him. It sucks but it's reality.

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Mon 06/16/08 03:26 PM
The answer is yes & no explain

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Mon 06/16/08 03:26 PM
why don't guys answer direct questions like "how do you see us?" some of you know about a good old friend of mine and i and how i want to be more but will be content with just friends. its driving me crazy not knowing and he won't even email me or call anymore. he won't say what is on his mind. He's hedging on you. I'd move past him. It sucks but it's reality. what's "hedging on me?"

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 06/16/08 03:27 PM
I think he wants just friends but is afraid of hurting your feelings

SimplyElla Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 7124	Mon 06/16/08 03:27 PM
why don't guys answer direct questions like "how do you see us?" some of you know about a good old friend of mine and i and how i want to be more but will be content with just friends. its driving me crazy not knowing and he won't even email me or call anymore. he won't say what is on his mind. not saying what is on his mind bc there is nothing on his mind... ha ha... he is a man... ha ha JK I seriously believe that when a guy doesn't write or call or text or talk to you it is simple. He just does not want to. He does not care to. That is me though, IMO.

DREAMZ Joined Sat 05/31/08 Posts: 1775	Mon 06/16/08 03:27 PM
forget about him.....these chat rooms are just filled with guys waiting to take advantage and not call you!

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Mon 06/16/08 03:28 PM
I think he wants just friends but is afraid of hurting your feelings bingo

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Mon 06/16/08 03:28 PM
I think he wants just friends but is afraid of hurting your feelings bingo then why would he make out with me out of the blue?

sam53 Joined Wed 03/12/08 Posts: 2073	Mon 06/16/08 03:30 PM Edited by sam53 on Mon 06/16/08 03:34 PM
I seriously believe that when a guy doesn't write or call or text or talk to you it is simple. He just does not want to. He does not care to. That is me though, IMO. You are right and the same goes for women ....just in case the dudes do not get it as well .... .

rainysky39 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 4071	Mon 06/16/08 03:35 PM
I think he wants just friends but is afraid of hurting your feelings bingo then why would he make out with me out of the blue? Hes a male, its what they do! lol

dirtyblonde007 Joined Wed 01/16/08 Posts: 932	Mon 06/16/08 03:37 PM Edited by dirtyblonde007 on Mon 06/16/08 03:40 PM
I think he wants just friends but is afraid of hurting your feelings bingo then why would he make out with me out of the blue? Hes a male, its what they do! lol ok y'all are right. guess i just chose to ignore it.

dicimus01 Joined Thu 01/18/07 Posts: 387	Mon 06/16/08 03:42 PM
You know in most cases you can't have sex with guys and stay freinds. That is unless you get into an honest relationship.