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that when talking to (some) guys they go on and on about an ex even months after talking to them then one time when you ask a questions about her or what happen they tell you to mind your own buisness 
Its a real passion killer too, I always seem to get the nuclear fallout of bitterness...words said to me should have been said to their ex  so I build them up, give them back their battered confidence and....whoosh off they go all bright eyed and bushy tailed and leave me waiting for the next man awaiting theropy or healing... 
i hope you charge Now theres a good idea
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Why do you feel the need to share something this trivial and useless with the rest of the community? Who cares if they told you to mind your own business, just move on and be done with it. It serves no purpose to dwell on anyone not worth the effort for more then five minutes. 
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that when talking to (some) guys they go on and on about an ex even months after talking to them then one time when you ask a questions about her or what happen they tell you to mind your own buisness
Its a real passion killer too, I always seem to get the nuclear fallout of bitterness...words said to me should have been said to their ex so I build them up, give them back their battered confidence and....whoosh off they go all bright eyed and bushy tailed and leave me waiting for the next man awaiting therapy or healing...
Stop taking broken bikes into your house, leave them at the curb with the rest of the trash.... words I've learned to live by.... 
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that when talking to (some) guys they go on and on about an ex even months after talking to them then one time when you ask a questions about her or what happen they tell you to mind your own buisness
Wow.. lucky for you if you where to have picked some one like me who never been on a date but with my self, you would have never heard about one single ex. I guess the thing is some guys can't leave the pass a lone and move on. Good luck. Have a nice day too. 
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As a guy, I don't really have much trouble talking about my exs, but I think I maybe be somewhat unique, because generally how I deal with stuff.
As I understand it though, constantly volunteering that sort of information is a turn off, and it's not something I would discuss very early in a relationship. Perhaps if you've ever browsed through lots of female's profiles, you'd notice that a lot of them say "I want a man, not a boy." It seems that if a guy is too open, he becomes a whiny *****, and if he's too closed and tries to act tough, he becomes a bastard. |
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Edited by
fridaygurl
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Mon 06/16/08 10:10 AM
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I always seem to get the nuclear fallout of bitterness...words said to me should have been said to their ex grumble so I build them up, give them back their battered confidence and....whoosh off they go all bright eyed and bushy tailed and leave me waiting for the next man awaiting theropy or healing.
My mom always said I had a knack for picking up strays so I totally feel you. I'm with whoever said you should charge~!
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Because some guys go on and on and on about a lot of things
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I always seem to get the nuclear fallout of bitterness...words said to me should have been said to their ex grumble so I build them up, give them back their battered confidence and....whoosh off they go all bright eyed and bushy tailed and leave me waiting for the next man awaiting theropy or healing.
My mom always said I had a knack for picking up strays so I totally feel you. I'm with whoever said you should charge~!
OHHHH I LOVE that.....picking up strays!
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Because some guys go on and on and on about a lot of things
wish with some it was that way with sex! |
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Because some guys go on and on and on about a lot of things
wish with some it was that way with sex! Yeah well, I wouldn't worry about it too much. If someone speaks out of both sides of their mouth then they likely don't know which........well.....you get the point. 
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if someone keeps talking about their Exs it means they haven't completely resolved their past....that kind of luggage being carried into the present is my definition of 'baggage'....
i just recently told a girl that she needed to clean up her past before i would go out with her again....she wasn't ready for a new relationship....it happens....
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Sometimes if you talk about things to early in a new relationship you put off your new love.
If you wait to long you are holding out on your new love. It's a PTSD kinda thing you have to trust the person you are with to be able to tell them some things, ie. my wife beat me or tied me up and tickled me till I passed out, or what ever. We are supposed to be the strong ones. If we show our sensitive side to early you think we are weak, if we wait to long we are holding out on you or holding on to the past. So when is a good time to bring up the past in a new relationship. Do you never want to here my hurts. Do you want me to wait till you ask. If I tell you I'm divorced twice and widowed once am I just talking about my x's. I guess we need to find out what and where the boundrys are before we open up. |
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