LMMFAO!!!

Maybe if he was a lesbian that advice would make sense. I am guessing you may be like my sister. Sex is how she found her wife. Gay people are not only the horniest people around but have the least amount of sexual hangups in the world.

No this is a guy is likely afraid of women. He needs that friendship thing first. I do too. I am terrified of women. Petrified. Just ask all my friends. I mumble and stumble stammer with little banter. Oh and then there is the meeting, "what are you looking at, is it my hair?" Guys are messed up mentally let me tell you.

Humdinger - now that's a funny word. Why did I say that? Yeah it's time I went to sleep.

Ok relationships thats what this is about. Here is what you do. You talk to people. You be completely honest. You be yourself. No games, keep it real. Now the other person will either like the you or think you are a big jerk. I've been on both sides of that and let me tell you I am who I am. So if one person doesn't like you they are idiots, start talking to someone else. (You must believe them to be idiots or else your confidence goes. No they are freaking idiots if they don't like the real you.)

Eventually find someone who likes you for being you and then friendship see if there is any chemistry or if she just wants to keep it on the "hello how do you do, stop looking at my breasts level". Actually don't look at womens breasts it's rude and juvenile. Ok you can look but just don't stare.

Talk, don't gawk or you'll walk.

Naw...Get her drunk, Bang her and see where it leads...

It's worked for years!

gotta work your way outta the playpen first

Come on, my advice was better than telling him to get a Blow up doll

On this site friends first....maybe post on the threads & let people get to know you....either way there is a good chance you are going to have to do long distance traveling if you want to see someone from here...

Now I'm on other dating sites & that is much easier to meet someone because there is a larger selection of local people....in those cases I either get contacted first(which is usually the most successful) & respond or I will contact them & see if they respond(which is a numbers game because i get a low rate of response)....however, the woman i recently dated & the one I hope to date soon, were ones I contacted first & they responded....