Falling in Love. Tell me one pleasant thing that involves falling.

Falling out of bed... Not pleasant. Been there, bought the t shirt
Falling for something...Not good
Falling ill...Bad
Falling off the wagon...Bad
Falling to sleep... hmmm I guess that could be good, depending on the circumstances. While driving on a steep mountain pass.... Very bad

Falling in Love. I think maybe it should be rising in Love. Or growing in Love or becoming in Love or blooming in love.
Yep, I'm a romantic.

There has to be a way to improve the expression depicting the greatest experience in the human adventure?

I believe you cannot help ...falling...in love, but ever lasting love is a choice, you have to grow together in your love to stay in love. It's not a one time occurance....else explain the divorce rate??

I think you can close off to it ... yes ..
ie make your self NOT available

you could close off to it......but it's a delusion because in reality your in love...and talking yourself out of it.....which doesn't take the original away.

I think that the person I posted this topic for is slowly changing his mind.

You always have the choice, although you can be greatly swayed by hormones, chemistry, and other factors.