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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?
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It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack.
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It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack. Dang, you hit the nail RIGHT ON THE HEAD!!! |
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I agree , I think it's a law of averages type of thing
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It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack. no truer words have been spoken .... |
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? This and how they get the Caramilk inside the Caramilk bar ... life's unsolved mysteries! It's unsettling isn't it - when you're putting yourself out there with honesty, openness and integrity and you're met with -- well, let's just say, 'less than that', to be polite! |
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oh lordy...... see why us women have trust issues???
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? Just to kill time I suppose ...... . |
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I agree , I think it's a law of averages type of thing And it sucks...!!! |
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF??? |
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Maybe because they are interested in you.
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we gotta have back up.......But the back up should never know they are the back up.....thats the trick........
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF??? Just let them down gently...tell them to F off... |
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we gotta have back up.......But the back up should never know they are the back up.....thats the trick........ Note to self: Don't take emails from this guy... |
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Options , gotta have options .
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF??? Just let them down gently...tell them to F off... do you know me? |
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Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice? I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF??? Just let them down gently...tell them to F off... do you know me? lol...I see it all in the eyes... |
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I find it insulting that someone would think I would ever "settle" for not being thier numero uno interest
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I heard this long ago and there is so much wisdom in this...
Never make someone a priority if they consider you an option. |
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I've never kept a "list" with girls rated top to bottom. I could never even consider dating more than one girl at a time, and I would sure as heck not hurt anyone by implying they were second best...
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