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Topic: Second, third, fourth best etc...
feistybaby's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:50 PM
Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?

Tankk's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:54 PM
It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack.:smile:

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Sun 06/15/08 02:56 PM

It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack.:smile:


Dang, you hit the nail RIGHT ON THE HEAD!!! laugh

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:56 PM
I agree , I think it's a law of averages type of thingohwell

BlndwBdge's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:56 PM

It's a numbers game...or sort of like beauty pageants...in the event the winner can't fulfill her duties the next one picks up the slack.:smile:


no truer words have been spoken ....:tongue:

ElaineSeekingJerry's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:57 PM

Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?


This and how they get the Caramilk inside the Caramilk bar ... life's unsolved mysteries! :wink:

It's unsettling isn't it - when you're putting yourself out there with honesty, openness and integrity and you're met with -- well, let's just say, 'less than that', to be polite! :angry:

Jules0565's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:57 PM
oh lordy...... see why us women have trust issues???

frown frown frown

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Sun 06/15/08 02:57 PM

Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?

Just to kill time I suppose ......laugh laugh laugh .

Italy0219's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:59 PM

I agree , I think it's a law of averages type of thingohwell


And it sucks...!!!flowerforyou

Lily0923's photo
Sun 06/15/08 02:59 PM

Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?


I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF???

yantraimages's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:00 PM
Maybe because they are interested in you.

iRon's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:02 PM
we gotta have back up.......But the back up should never know they are the back up.....thats the trick........glasses

Tankk's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:02 PM


Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?


I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF???

Just let them down gently...tell them to F off...:tongue:

Lily0923's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:02 PM

we gotta have back up.......But the back up should never know they are the back up.....thats the trick........glasses


Note to self: Don't take emails from this guy...

no photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:03 PM
Options , gotta have options .

Lily0923's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:04 PM



Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?


I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF???

Just let them down gently...tell them to F off...:tongue:


do you know me? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Tankk's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:05 PM




Why do people bother to tell you they are interested in you when obviously you are not thier first choice?


I don't mind that so much as when you tell them that you know you are not the first choice and decline their pursuit and then they get mad about it...WTF???

Just let them down gently...tell them to F off...:tongue:


do you know me? laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

lol...I see it all in the eyes...:tongue:

feistybaby's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:05 PM
I find it insulting that someone would think I would ever "settle" for not being thier numero uno interest

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Sun 06/15/08 03:09 PM
I heard this long ago and there is so much wisdom in this...

Never make someone a priority if they consider you an option.

flowerforyou

Alterego1961's photo
Sun 06/15/08 03:10 PM
flowerforyou I've never kept a "list" with girls rated top to bottom. I could never even consider dating more than one girl at a time, and I would sure as heck not hurt anyone by implying they were second best... flowerforyou flowerforyou

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