Topic: Men...what do you say about this...? | |
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Ok, so I need some advice. I'm a person who likes communication by any and all means,,,phone, text, email, IM, etc... Here is my quandry... I recently started talking to a guy from JSH. He sought me out. He initiated the contact with me and gave me his phone number. We talked on IM and then on the phone. He has called me from different numbers that I have a telephone book starting (LOL) ... He says he is interested, am I safe to assume it is ok to call him without asking him first? He has called me several times throughout the day since we started talking. How much is too much communication?? I don't want to inundate him with texts or vms when I can't get a hold of him. Is talking everyday too much? If you don't talk everyday, should one feel slighted?
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ask him what he's comfortable with
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Communication is 2 way street so you should call him as well; doesn't have to be on a daily basis until it gets serious.
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Call him & find out
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whatever you feel comfortable with, maybe its just me, but calling you from several numbers just seems like a small red flag, i don't know.
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RED FLAG Several different numbers???
RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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Edited by
smiless
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Sat 06/14/08 10:33 AM
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I believe it is only natural to want to spend every moment together if both are interested in each other. You thrive and urge to want to know more about the person is a great feeling. Perhaps you both can actually meet and go places together also. Do some activities and really get to know each other more then just phone calls!
To answer your question: I don't believe it is too much if both really enjoy each other. Good luck and alot of fun! |
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if he is calling from dofferent numbers all th time,,,,that might be a small flag being held up,,,,,,,let him do th calling for now,,,,,make him hungry
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I would question this also.... |
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whatever you feel comfortable with, maybe its just me, but calling you from several numbers just seems like a small red flag, i don't know. C'mon guys he might just be calling from all his baby momma houses. |
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! follow that bear!!!!!!!!! |
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Edited by
JaceKnows
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Sat 06/14/08 10:36 AM
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Uh, yeah, she's right. NOT good! |
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ummm call if he doesnt pick up give it a few hours and try again
if its early morning try that then wait till 7 or 8 at night and if he doesnt pick up try calling back the next day |
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(((irad))) "Jinks!" Long time no see!
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(((irad))) "Jinks!" Long time no see! |
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I agree... |
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all good questions......may be his wife can answer them?!
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all good questions......may be his wife can answer them?! |
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RED FLAG Several different numbers??? RUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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