Topic: why some men are single....
Tankk's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:11 AM

what a jerk....tell me about it......they want barbies......top model......... on here yeah right............ u want a spoiled brat goo too the mall at vistoria secret...or beverly hills

Like women don't want guys who look good!

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Sat 06/14/08 10:11 AM





i met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses


"True knowledge exists in knowing that you know nothing." -- Socrates "




in this sense, men are not seeking knowledge, they are seeking women and therefore should have some class and tact, if not decency and respect.

...."mind over matter...if you have no mind...nothing matters"....me






pardon me, but whoever does not have a mind, woe unto him or her.ohwell
oooooooooooooooooooook thensmokin

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:12 AM
i think it's called arm candy,,,,,,,,but women do th same thing,,,,an i have heard about women asking men for there credit score,,,,,,she can kiss my score's butt,,,,,that nun of her business,,,,,,,yetlaugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sat 06/14/08 10:12 AM
smokin Stalk himsmokin

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Sat 06/14/08 10:14 AM

Well as a woman who has been over weight most of my life... I don't feel he did wrong really. Every one has likes and dislikes in the opposite sex. Im guilty of that too. If we all just "settled" for whatever came along, we'd all be alot more miserable. Maybe he was a little tacky about it, but why waste your time and his, if your not the type he'd be attracted to???



my point is.... i am neither overweight, nor short but its the way he started his conversation, no tact, no class, no respect and highly inconsiderate of how his question might affect someone who might be overweight or stumpy, lets say. that is not the way to being a conversation when you are looking for something real etc. just my opinion.

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Sat 06/14/08 10:17 AM


Well as a woman who has been over weight most of my life... I don't feel he did wrong really. Every one has likes and dislikes in the opposite sex. Im guilty of that too. If we all just "settled" for whatever came along, we'd all be alot more miserable. Maybe he was a little tacky about it, but why waste your time and his, if your not the type he'd be attracted to???



my point is.... i am neither overweight, nor short but its the way he started his conversation, no tact, no class, no respect and highly inconsiderate of how his question might affect someone who might be overweight or stumpy, lets say. that is not the way to being a conversation when you are looking for something real etc. just my opinion.


Then it was his loss... your gain

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Sat 06/14/08 10:17 AM

People don't suck at heart. The problem is that the a-holes make the good ones resort to crappy behavior and attitudes. Don't let him win by bringing you down. glasses

Stick with the winners, as they say. flowerforyou


words of wisdom
spoken in moments of sobriety laugh laugh laugh

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:21 AM

I met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses


Well..those questions aren't nearly as bad as the ones I get..
1.Can you have sex?
2.Are you on SSI?
3.How much does it pay you?
4.Will you take care of me with it?
Those are all in the FIRST note most times.huh

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Sat 06/14/08 10:21 AM


Well as a woman who has been over weight most of my life... I don't feel he did wrong really. Every one has likes and dislikes in the opposite sex. Im guilty of that too. If we all just "settled" for whatever came along, we'd all be alot more miserable. Maybe he was a little tacky about it, but why waste your time and his, if your not the type he'd be attracted to???



my point is.... i am neither overweight, nor short but its the way he started his conversation, no tact, no class, no respect and highly inconsiderate of how his question might affect someone who might be overweight or stumpy, lets say. that is not the way to being a conversation when you are looking for something real etc. just my opinion.

I have come to realize I like all types as long as they have sense of humour. Short and plump, slim and lanky as long as they can laugh that is okflowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou my credit score was 720 until a woman ruined itsad sad sad sad

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:24 AM


I met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses


Well..those questions aren't nearly as bad as the ones I get..
1.Can you have sex?
2.Are you on SSI?
3.How much does it pay you?
4.Will you take care of me with it?
Those are all in the FIRST note most times.huh


Magical One ... smokin flowerforyou

I'm still your pal. It's not all bad. :heart:

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:25 AM



I met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses


Well..those questions aren't nearly as bad as the ones I get..
1.Can you have sex?
2.Are you on SSI?
3.How much does it pay you?
4.Will you take care of me with it?
Those are all in the FIRST note most times.huh


Magical One ... smokin flowerforyou

I'm still your pal. It's not all bad. :heart:

No..you're right..not all are bad but there are quite a few that are and they seem to be attracted to ME.laugh

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Sat 06/14/08 10:29 AM


I met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses


Well..those questions aren't nearly as bad as the ones I get..
1.Can you have sex?
2.Are you on SSI?
3.How much does it pay you?
4.Will you take care of me with it?
Those are all in the FIRST note most times.huh

Dang and I thought I attracted the crazy's. Here's one for you Lady flowerforyou smooched drinker

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:30 AM
Sorry to hear that. That's fairly lame but not everyone will behave that way.

Citizen_Joe's photo
Sat 06/14/08 10:35 AM


some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses




Then again, I doubt you're a statue, or well, is that truth in advertizing? laugh laugh laugh laugh

lilangel2's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:12 AM
The first dating site I posted on, I really didn't want to put my pic up for the world to see, so I just stated that once we get talking good I will send you a picture. There was also a place to put what famouse person do you look like...I put the girl, Blair from facts of life and Goldie Hawn...because I have been told this. I got one guy who emailed me and said, "ok, I will waste about 3 emails on you and you better look like them or you are history! HA! I just typed "DELETE". bigsmile

I have since thought it over and really is best to show a pic. I mean that is the first attraction...

Lakeman's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:19 AM

Well as a woman who has been over weight most of my life... I don't feel he did wrong really. Every one has likes and dislikes in the opposite sex. Im guilty of that too. If we all just "settled" for whatever came along, we'd all be alot more miserable. Maybe he was a little tacky about it, but why waste your time and his, if your not the type he'd be attracted to???

I agree..he was tacky about it but....He probably has had a lot of women that claim that they are slim and in shape...only to find out upon meeting them that they were definitely stretching the truth!!!

Lily0923's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:24 AM
How about the guy that emailed me, I looked at his profile and could tell he was married..."looking for something discrete" so I emailed him back and said "I don't talk to married men" and he cussed me out and called ME a hypocrit.

You have to look at the caliber of person you are talking to.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:38 AM

How about the guy that emailed me, I looked at his profile and could tell he was married..."looking for something discrete" so I emailed him back and said "I don't talk to married men" and he cussed me out and called ME a hypocrit.

You have to look at the caliber of person you are talking to.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Lily..you evil evil woman..trying to force that guy to stay faithful to his wife..how WRONG can you get?laugh
That guy was an idiot.laugh

CleanBathroom's photo
Sat 06/14/08 11:41 AM
Edited by CleanBathroom on Sat 06/14/08 11:41 AM
I met a "height/weight" proportionate girl that MAY have stretched the truth.

That said, if you are starting a coed rugby squad, you'll want me around 'cuz I know where she lives.

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Sat 06/14/08 11:42 AM

i met this guy who IM me and the first thing he said was

how much do you weigh and how tall are you.noway

my response was: why do you want to know that so fast
his response was: this conversation has 17 seconds left if you dont tell me, so i said, you choose, and there was the CLICK. he left.

some guys just dont get it... how sad.glasses




when people ask that...i say 4'5 and 245 pounds.happy