I've never been the Pickup line type of guy. I've always let my
personality grow on a lady. But now I'm a single dad without time.
Please tell me the best way to get a womans attention quickly.

By letting your personality shine through and just be yourself just be
real. If they don't like you for who you are they will never like you.
Humor goes along ways. Besides your a nice looking guy you
should not have any problems just be yourself!

Why do you want fast attention? That will always lead to the wrong kinds
of attention and you really do not want that around your child do you?

Take your time, focus on your child, he is only little for a short time.
Take him to the park, there is always women there, find out where in
your neighborhood that other little ones hang out and go there.

This is something that you can't rush if you really want the nice lady
that will make you and your son happy.

I appreciate that. But that whole personality thing takes time. How do
you get her attention here and now?

yep, what they said is pretty much it man!!!

Thanks porcelain. That's the kind of advice I'm looking for.

Well here first thing you do to catch there attention is e-mail them and
tell them you read there profile and liked what you saw and would like
to get to know them. Besides pick up lines are the last thing women want
to hear most are stupid just a simple hello I like what I see would you
like to get to know me does wonders!!

Anytime sweetie, sorry it will not fulfill the attention need right now.

But you want to be able to hold that attention that you so madly want to
find. And that fast attention you do not want.

And Txs is right, you are a great looking guy, just take your time.

Yes fine is so right your kids are number one always. They are a package
deal and there thoughts do count on the one you finally find to date. If
they don't get along with your kids there is usually a reason.

I know you're right, But a man needs a woman Y'know?

Aww and like women don't want a man, believe me we do too its just
finding the one that the connections are there and you enjoy being
around.

But not the wrong woman sweetie, just please for the sake of your son
and your heart, take your time.

Don't use pick up lines!!!! Just be honest and tell the lady what caught
your attention. ex: wow you have a great smile.
Any parent is willing to talk about their child. So at the park start a
conversation about the lady's kid. Compare experiences, and let your
personality show.

Thanks incognito. It all makes sense.

You don't want to come off as you want to know now!! either cause if you
do it might scare her off, you have to show a woman patience and that
you are for real in order for her to take you seriously, and in order
you both have to serious about each other, lack of commication is a slow
death of most relationships, just be yourself and she'll see that

also to add to that man don't do the pickup lines it will get you now
where fast, no girl likes to be picked up by a pickup line, shows that
your interested in getting to know whats between her legs and not her so
dont!!!

I started this saying I don't use pick up lines!!

Glenn, these ladies have given you a lot of good advice. I know time is
running short . . . I'm 10+ years your senior and single. Don't rush
it, there is plenty of time. If you look at it as time running out, you
(and she) may settle for the wrong person just to not be alone. I was
married for 24 years and know that if I marry again, it will be the
right person. But in the meantime, I'm enjoying my single life.

Your children are so precious; give them a lot of love and attention.
They are also a great avenue to meeting down to earth women.

Good luck to you

Thanks onalark. Your very sweet. and thanks for the compliment about my
boys.

Big Glenn...

Chill dude! You can PAY for rushed sex. But if you want someone that
will stimulate the rest of you, take your time and get to know the
ladies. You want to show your kids what kind of man you are. Talk is
cheep, Actions are everything. They will learn by your example. Set it
early and I am sure you will get alot of respect from your children.

Good luck hon
T